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Before I jump on the 100 DOD train, I want to talk about #ALoveOtherThanYours because I just finished it.. 🪄 and GOD, maybe I should delete Twitter and watch shows alone like I did back in my 27-28th without so many irrelevant opinions.. coz how tf some of you guyz watch tv shows and don't get importance of any single bond or line the way writers want you to see it ? 👀 • First of all, maybe I'm the only one in the fandom who isn't happy ALOTY ended, because this show was truly my free therapy with its triggers.. I genuinely loved every single character, even when they annoyed me at times.. Buuut I couldn't care less about fandom opinions or those irrelevant fights.. I don't watch TV shows based on what the fandom thinks.. ​• Second of all, the people under my ALOTY posts always brought their own points.. Even if I didn't agree with some of you, every one of you guyz somehow managed to bring your POVs really well..having my own POV doesn't mean I can't look at a scenes from your angle.. plus, it keeps things entertaining.. Thank y'all , coz without your perspectives, I probably wouldn't have rewatched certain scenes to check if I missed something.. GOOD you exist ♡ ​• Lastly, if I was rude to anyone, I'm really sorry.. I've barely been around lately because I had to work 17-18 hours a day for the past 2-3 weeks.. this is dark side of self employment there's no day offs when things are going south :DD... Running on barely any sleep made me want to step back from soc media so I wouldn't take out my frustration on people here, I don't even know , that’s why i was rarely here .. it’s not anyone's fault I was exhausted .. so , If I came across as harsh to anyone, I apologize . Now about aloty , i genuinely don't get how on earth did people watch those last two episodes and still hate on characters left and right? If anything, the ending was : • really realistic • packed with good details, and grounded in solid dialogue.. my absolute fav was Mido’s mom giving her advice after the breakup not to force things on her mind, because that advice was 100% spot-on from my personal experience and mind you she used her husband case as an example and we all know how much she loved him.. • The breakup trip was exactly what they both needed to close that chapter with honest tears.. They both cried for different reasons, each coming from their own perspective on their shared fate, and the show wrapped that chapter up beautifully.. I loved every single detail about that trip abd especially mido entering in the ocean to save someone.. (proud mom tears) ​• I’m so proud of Mido becoming a lecturer.. People might have wanted to see her instantly succeed as a director, tge channel was using the word "realistic" in every fcking single promotion how you still didn't catch that clue? People on twitter also forget that she was actively sabotaging her own career month ago , be real plz .. her conversation with her colleague mate and telling him his success wasn't just luck, but the result of him pushing all the way to the end.. mirrored her internal struggle.. She wasn't ready for that level of push yet, but she still found her true place in the industry in a different way but she's still around her goal .. Now she's lecturing the next generation abd sharingher experience, and I’m confident that once she gathers the strength to push through, she will succeed as a director too .. plus taesung being around her is another big push in that and I'll write about it separately.. Her taking full accountability and grabbing the wheel of her own life was what she needed right now to make peace with herself, thise two years were so successful for her she even influenced Taesung’s decisions abouther professional life .. They say a person typically affects around 100 people in their orbit, so her affecting taesung in that 100 person wasn't unnatural for me .. but what matters to me , she didn't force anything .. he chose to fight for his chance... Given everything they went through.. every rejection, every reality check from bith sides, every acceptance.. it felt entirely earned, not out of nowhere.. ​• As for Namgoong deciding not to meet Mido's family, was a radical decision , yes ... But what I loved about these final episodes and that trip, was mido and Namgoong being absolutely honesty with themselves and I respect his decision completely, even if I wanted him to keep Wando around , at the end of the day its only him who truly knows whether he can maintain a healthy relationship with a family or not .. I respect that he didn't lie to himself when he knew he couldn't do it and this time didn't force himself to play that fake "everything is okay" face .. I also loved that he spent two years abroad and rejected an early return because he felt unready, also him coming back with clear decision without doubts was fair towards Sua , coz she was always honest with him and their first real intimate moment after that break up starting with clarifing things was one of my fav thing , prom my pov it wasn't sua being insecure about him it was sua being her unapologetic self and getting clarity on their current situation... I loved my little sua with her Bambi eyes🦌making sure there's no confusion this time . What i noticed, In these two years Namgoong's inner child also grew up, took accountability for his emotions , and finally stepped out of that victim mentality [which really annoyed me lately] ..ready to confront everything that bothered him to the point initiatingthat breakup trip.. As much as I understood him, since I'd always prefer being hated over being pitied from my inner circle., at some point I was really exhausted by namgoong punishing himself for things that were completely irrelevant and existed only in his own head .. • Also I loved him making it clear how wrong it was mido blaming herself for her dad's death coz in my pov that man didn't run to save him right away to save Namgoong coz he didn't want to leave mido alone there while they had a really emotional and important conversation about miscommunication.. she was so small ..so Namgoong clarifying it for her was such a good line , she needed to hear it from someone else and her brothers are a little too slow to come up with that line right away, her mom definitely would have told it to her but she needed to hear it right away from him .. clearly her POV on her father's death changed a lot in those two years and she doesn't feel guilty anymore, that’s what i noticed while she was talking about their first meeting and Namgoong survival in that breakup trip scene .. ♡ P.s .. I have so many thoughts annd I'll try to bring them one by one coz I'm already lost in my emotions how much i enjoyed with last two episodes dialogues ♡ #ALoveOtherThanYoursEp13