Wolfenstein B 😇👁️💜👁️

A man once told me I was the perfect woman to marry because I could take care of myself. Apparently, my ability to survive without a man was one of the reasons he wanted to become my husband. We were talking one evening when he said, “I like that you are hardworking. You know how to take care of yourself.” I smiled. “Thank you.” Then he added, “That means I won’t have too much responsibility when we get married. You can handle yourself, and we can share the bills.” I asked him, “So what changes for me when I get married?” He looked confused. I continued, “I’m already working, paying my bills, and taking care of myself. If I marry you and still do all of that, what exactly are we building together?” He said, “Marriage is a partnership. Both people should contribute.” I agreed. Of course, both people should contribute. But I wanted to know whether he saw marriage as two people supporting each other or simply two people managing their own lives under one roof. My people, sometimes a man sees a hardworking woman and thinks, “Good, this one won’t be a burden.” But has anybody asked what that woman is hoping to gain from marriage? She is already carrying her own responsibilities. She also wants someone she can lean on. I don’t mind working hard. I just don’t want to get married and discover that my only reward is more responsibilities. Ladies, would you marry a man who expects you to carry on exactly as you did when you were single, while calling it partnership?