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Kinky male. Older but not old. Didn’t understand it all for ages but does now. Baker of fine breads and good at cards. Interested in meeting like minded folk.

UK
Joined July 2015
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Yes. I do now. It has sits pleasures and its drawbacks. I try to keep them in balllance but don’t always manage.
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As something of a swimwear fetishist, I approached this with keen anticipation. I was looking for: Best swimwear for foreplay Best bikini for spanking Best one piece for a dominatrix Best bikini bottoms for men. Zip Nada Nothing! A very narrow review IMHO
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ANNDDD…. as of today I’m another year older! Which is really quite old. I guess that’s what the post below was about. Reassuring myself that I’m doing OK for my now 68 years! Cooking a family dinner for tonight with my chef son. Other son coming down Thursday. Nice.
I’m not on here much these days. But I’m still around. Still having amazing kinky sessions with the most gorgeous friends. Getting older. Bit of arthritis. Looking to downsize my house. Still travelling. Playing a bit of poker here and there. Mostly there. It’s not a bad life.
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I’m not on here much these days. But I’m still around. Still having amazing kinky sessions with the most gorgeous friends. Getting older. Bit of arthritis. Looking to downsize my house. Still travelling. Playing a bit of poker here and there. Mostly there. It’s not a bad life.
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I’ve finally taken my blog down. The UK safety act is too much of a barrier and I don’t want to either sanitise the blog or put age checks in. I’m going to download all the writing and may yet turn it into a memoir of my exploration of kink and the growth that came from it. Sad
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Chris Rea. RIP What a damn shame.
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Don’t think I’ve ever punched someone. Otherwise, yeah. But I am ancient.
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Latest madness is that I’ve written a script for a one person fringe show about my journeys through the kinky under world and where it led me.
Hadn’t quite appreciated the extent to which I’d stopped posting on here. Hmmm. Maybe you’ll have to put up with more of me.
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I wonder if @polgarareturns would approve of how it starts. Not at all sure this will ever see a stage but it was fun to go through ten years of posts and turn it into to something new.
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Hadn’t quite appreciated the extent to which I’d stopped posting on here. Hmmm. Maybe you’ll have to put up with more of me.
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NEW: I’ve been lucky enough to play the Dom for some Wonderful submissives. I’ve often wondered what it would be like to dominate a Domme. @misskstinger_uk let me find out. painaspleasure.com/2025/09/1…
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I’m still doing the cardiac rehab fitness programme. I’ve recovered from the op and can do everything I could do before the heart problems started. Now it’s about winding the clock back further just for the joy of being fit. Also I want to go skiing in January.
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I was flogged yesterday with a heavy flogger. She kept checking in because I was new to her and it wasn’t her flogger. But by the end it felt like being hit with a cricket bat, making me thump into the cross. Her hug pulled me out of a dreamy subspace. Mmmm
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NEW: I haven’t written a blog post for a while. but I needed to post-rationalise this rather intense session with @Miss_K_Stinger painaspleasure.com/2025/06/0…
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Was playing poker in Italy last weekend. They call people who play all the weird esoteric forms of poker the “variantisti.” I’m part of that group. I guess it’s not the only way in which I am part of the variantisti!
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I’m late to this, but here’s my final #SinfulSunday post and with it an expression of the huge debt I owe to @mollysdailykiss.bsky.social for curating this beautiful space for so long. painaspleasure.com/2025/04/2…
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“I want to be one, integrated entity, as I have been since Mistress Elita and I carried out a full blooded BDSM session in front of a room full of my friends.” painaspleasure.com/2025/01/1…
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Every time I pay for a session with a Domme there is a moment, sometimes a whole day, when instead of celebrating what this is and the cathartic relief I gained from the session, I focus on what it isn’t, and how wonderful kink can be when it’s inside a relationship. Le sigh.
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NEW: For #SinfulSunday I’m both dating a new person and exploring my kinks. There’s a tension between the two. painaspleasure.com/2025/01/1…...
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I’m still processing today’s session with @HelloMissHunter. I wasn’t sure I wanted to be caned. Too soon I told myself, too vulnerable. But by the time we got there it felt right. I wanted it. All of it. I felt so alive, so vital. Pain I’d chosen. Not the other kind.
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