Dizz

Got into a debate about fat shaming at dinner tonight. If you're visibly 20+ pounds overweight and don't have a medical condition or disability causing it, I'm going to judge you. I assume you're lazy, lack self-control, and that your lack of discipline carries over into other parts of your life. Like dude, you can't even fit through a NYC subway turnstile. What are you doing with your life? You can't control what goes into your mouth, won't commit to working out, and consistently choose short-term gratification over your own health. And I'm supposed to believe that lack of discipline magically disappears when it comes to your finances, career, and relationships? You have hours for Netflix, TikTok, and eating garbage. But 45 minutes at the gym and smaller portions? Apparently impossible. Nobody's asking you to look like a model. We're talking about the bare minimum of taking care of yourself. We judge people by their choices every day. Why should your weight be exempt? You have every right to be fat. I have every right to judge you for it. Call it fat shaming. I don't care.