Experienced psychological Dom, lover of operant conditioning and mental trickery. SUBMIT, LET ME IN, SEND 🔞MDNI ~ Proudly Pansexual 💜🏴🇬🇧🇮🇪
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I notice that some of you are still treating your money like it’s yours.
It’s kind of cute really, like the little puppy dog, or mr oinky oinks think they have a choice 🤭
Show Me something real in the comments right now, you know use your wordy words and all that good stuff.
Reply with:
1. How much you’ve already sent this week
2. What you’re about to send next
3. The exact word you’re going to say when you do it
If it helps you to type, why don’t you start a desperate regime of ‘air humping’ you know like thise idiots on mats in the gym.
Get to it.
This may be part of the appeal, in fact I think it’s a large chunk of the fantasy appeal.
But putting fantasy aside for one moment, I know half of you will stop reading at this point 🤣 it actually ties in with some replies I’ve made both today and in the past.
The first is this, findom can be waaay cheaper and actually more convenient and satisfying than the costs incurred in marriage or long term partnerships.
And the second is whilst enjoyable, you are taking up a Doms time, energy, and emotional labour in many cases, and also represent an ‘opportunity cost’ where he could be talking to others, is it not reasonable and fair to expect to pay (the amount obviously is negotiable) for that time and hot fun interaction?
Lastly people need to chill, honestly we all spend our money on the things we enjoy, I like whiskey, I also live my Rolex watch. Others like regular cinema or theatre trips, restaurants or take out food, going to sports games, festivals, clothes shopping….whatever.
We all prioritise what feels good, and by in large we all pay for it one way or another, just relax, enjoy and yes send!
I know a lot of you scroll My page, enjoying the wonderful things I have My toys and pets do.
I know you get excited, and probably that has been enough until now.
Now you want to experience it for yourself, not vicariously, for yourself.
You want to know how it feels, you want to be so close you can taste it!
Your banking app is already well lubricated and dripping, give it what it needs.
Send and start 🤭
Never let it be said that I do not care about the well being of those who serve Me!
I decided that a ‘health drink’ needed imbibing so that they could feel invigorated! (And so I could laugh 🤭).
Behold!
Subbo Milk 3000 ™️
It’s funny I had a sub ask if I ever do refunds if they took it too far yesterday.
Tbf this was not a time waster, a perfectly pleasant guy who sent a couple of times, so not throwing shade.
But I was clear, the short answer is NO.
You would not go into a bar and consume several drinks before turning to the bar owner and asking for your money back.
People who play here are adults, who are responsible for their own choices, they may not always like what they did after, it might feel icky, but it’s on THEM.
We often talk about the cycle of addiction, relapse, withdrawal, relapse.
And that’s a real thing, whether you perceive it as a bad thing or a delicious thing is entirely a matter of perspective 🤭
But parking the sometimes controversial there are many ‘non relapse’, ‘non addiction’ reasons that subs (and Dom/mes) return to this space having decided previously to leave.
Many missed the connection, the fun or the sense of fraternity, sorority or community.
For many in a fragmented, atomised world this space provides a warm hug like a mug of chicken broth on a Winters day, or sumptuously soft comfort blanket when all else seems uncertain.
And let’s be real, how many spaces can you authentically and unashamedly be you now, especially with regards to ‘naughtiness’ or topics that make your cheeks flush and your heart race!
Why did you come back after you said you were going?
The little details matter!
There is a reason for every instruction, every act no matter how small it may seem.
‘Yes’ seals your fate, but you would not have it any other way at this point would you?
Your paycheck doesn’t belong to you anymore, I’m not sure it ever did, did it? 🤭
You and I both know it belongs to whoever you can’t stop thinking about when it hits.
Right now that’s me, it likely always was, and you can’t deny it, that increased blood flow betrays you every, single, time.
Don’t overthink it. Don’t negotiate. Don’t send “what you can.” Send what hurts a little and then send more because you want the high that comes after, being My good pet, toy, plaything…
I’m not one for collecting random money. I simply catalogue proof that you understand the order of things.
My order of things, the only order that matters when all is said and done 😌
First one who moves gets acknowledged.
Everyone else can keep refreshing and
pretending they’re not waiting.
Tribute now or stay quiet. I only notice the ones who act.
And you soooo want Me to notice you.
Not every Master or Mistress is worth your time.
Not every ‘sub’ is actually submissive.
Some people here really are grade A fudge ups and ‘assholios’.
But equally, you will meet some of the finest people here, YOUR people, the ones meant for YOU.
Fill a glass and join me in a ‘cheers’ or indeed ‘proust!’ The awkward german way with unerving eye contact!
🥂🍻
A little update from earlier, the water melon was ‘well loved’ but he was unable to bring things to a conclusive finish.
But that’s ok I train champions and we will get there!
Icy hot has been reapplied and everything is safely secured under lock and key again.
Tomorrow is another day
🍉🗝️
Question for the Dominants only.
I’m a firm believer that we all start of as sunshine, hearts and rainbows to begin with and over time get dragged further and further to the dark side as time goes on after experiencing acts of utmost bellendery.
How long before you became an/more of an asshole?
Why would I be making him acquire a large water melon and make a hole in it?
Looks like he needs some exercise and somatic therapy, really loosen those hips up!
🍉
Jordan has applied a very generous amount of Icy Hot downstairs and locked back up again.
Be like Jordan 😌
This is perhaps one of the best argued positions against ‘woke’ or those defending ‘woke’.
Woke is cancer simple as, and has been a hugely destructive force in the Western World over the last couple of decades.
For those who simply believe being ‘woke’ is having an awareness of injustice give this a quick read (no more than two minutes of your time).
I’m tired of hearing:
- “Woke just means awareness of injustice”
- “Woke is a pejorative term. You shouldn’t call them that.”
First off: whatever you call woke, it will quickly become pejorative.
Many people strongly dislike their beliefs and practices. It’s not stigma, it’s earned dislike.
A very common part of being against woke is being tired of the policing of terminology, of which this is one example. We need a word for it, so this will have to do.
As for “woke means awareness of injustice. Are you against being aware of injustice?”. Certainly, that’s a 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 of the meaning of woke. But that would be like saying “MAGA is just about making America great. Are you against improving America?” MAGA certainly wants to rejuvenate America, but it comes with a large number of accompanying beliefs and practices that many people dislike and would like to criticize and fight.
Likewise, the woke ideology comes with many accompanying beliefs and practices, such as:
• Cancel culture
• Making everything about oppression
• Censorship of disagreement
• Believe all alleged victims
• You shouldn’t speak about groups you’re not a part of
• Silencing people based on race or gender
• Spot-the-oppression
• A belief in an all-pervasive but invisible racism/patriarchy/etc.
• Perpetually bringing up old grievances
• Believing the tiniest things cause trauma
• Anti-meritocracy
• Anonymous denunciations
• Safe spaces
• White savior complex
Central examples of the woke cluster include:
• Black Lives Matter
• White Fragility
• DEI
• # MeToo
I could go on, but you get the cluster.
Anyways, I wrote this up because most of the time when I post about woke, at least one person in the comments will bring up “woke means awareness of injustice” or “you shouldn’t use the word woke”. Now I can just link to this.
It your level if dedication is not this, what are you even doing?
It’s sooo much more fun when a slave really commits.
Now you can see the standard I expect I want you to WANT to exceed it!
Today could be the first day, in the rest of your life, seize it and don’t be afraid!
So you want a great D/s dynamic?
You want to improve your current one or maybe take the first tentative steps to putting yourself in a position to step out from the sidelines lurking, or occasional coffee to something that feels real, grounded and growth orientated!
Sounded slightly corporate there, but do think of Me as your CEO of life and cheif TED talker for your betterment!
Ask yourself are you really making the necessary sacrifices?
Do you have a gym membership for a gym you never use that is sucking anywhere from £30 (at the cheap end) to £150 a month at the premium end that could be better used as slush fund for findom sends?
Are you wasting money on daily coffees for *spits words out* yourself? That could be another £100.
Are you splurging on unecessary take away? Typical take away costs for 1 person are £7 or £8 pounds at the value end to £20 plus for the lardo or premium yummage, funds that should be funding your Doms yummage not your selfish clandestine KFC munching in a darkened room filled with crusty underpants (ok the darkened room with crusty underpants is fitting but no kfc!).
Lastly do you take every opportunity to weaken yourself?
Chastity?
Edging/Gooning?
Scrolling X at all hours?
Making ‘good’ investments such as poppers or a little liquor?
Once you nail down (no pun intended) these easily manageable things, the bigger, more tranaformative things will start to flower!
Tally Ho! And grab that hot sauce!
Happy Monday from your President of Pain 😏
You have not got out of bed yet have you!
I know why, it’s not because you are lazy (well you are a little) it’s more that you can’t until you have started your morning right.
It’s urgent isn’t it, hard, a little sticky?
But you still have not earned permission, and nothing feels good or right without it, the best part for you is how you earn permission.