For the Dommes 👑 Findom advice, scam warnings & community posts.

Joined February 2016
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Scammers putting “kindly” and “processing fee” in the same DM like we haven’t been on the internet before. PLEASE. 😂
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IF HE ASKS FOR A FEE IT'S A SCAM! Scammers don’t take a day off, so neither do I. Every time I warn about fee scams, at least one new domme avoids getting scammed. If you already know, good for you. But plenty don’t. And I’ll keep talking about it. Unfollow if you’re bored. 🤷‍♂️💸
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PLEASE stop treating every random account making huge promises on the TL like you’ve just discovered a hidden opportunity 😭 Look at the account first. Brand new? Barely any history? Replies absolutely FULL of Dommes trying to get noticed? Posting the same obvious bait over and over? You’re probably looking at someone who wants attention or someone looking for gullible girls to scam. You do not need to sprint into the replies every time a suspicious account waves a giant promise around. Sometimes the best thing you can give them is absolutely nothing. 😂
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🚨 New Dommes PLEASE be careful with “verification” requests. If some random account wants a video of you saying today’s date, their username or some weirdly specific phrase to “prove you’re real,” stop and think about WHY they need that exact clip. That video can be stolen and reused to impersonate you. You do not owe random strangers custom verification content just because they asked nicely. Protect your face, your identity & your account. <3
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🚨 If you have to pay a fee to receive the money, you are not receiving money. You are being scammed. Hope this helps. 😭
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You don't need to be friends with every Domme on your timeline, and you definitely don't need to force friendships for “networking.” Be normal. Support people you genuinely like. Have conversations when you actually have something to say. Community built naturally will always feel better than treating every interaction like a business transaction. ✨
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You do not need to spend yourself broke trying to LOOK successful online. If maintaining the image costs more than the image is doing for you, perhaps we have discovered a flaw in the business plan. 😭 A good month is also allowed to become savings. Not everything has to become content.
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Boring advice that will never look glamorous on the timeline: keep records. Put some of a good month aside. Know what you actually earned and spent. Think about taxes before they become a nasty surprise. Build an emergency fund when you can. Future you deserves some attention too.
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New Dommes: You do not need to become the loudest, meanest person on your timeline to prove you are dominant. Some Dommes are strict. Some are playful. Some are elegant. Some are sarcastic. Some barely need to raise their voice at all. There is no mandatory personality setting you unlock when you make an account. Figure out what feels natural to YOU. A convincing version of yourself will always work better than a bad impression of somebody else.
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New Dommes: please use your head when somebody randomly appears offering access to a “private piggy group chat” full of wealthy subs… but YOU have to pay to join. 🚩 Ask yourself why this supposedly exclusive group needs recruitment fees from Dommes in the first place. Fancy screenshots and big promises don’t make something legitimate. Don’t let FOMO switch off your common sense.
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The way these fake sugar daddies prey on hopeful Goddesses is vile. Real men send, no strings. Hope none of you have wasted even a penny on these clowns. 🚫🐷
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"Let’s talk for free first" 😴 "I love you so much" 😳 "Can I see your feet?" 👣 "What's the lowest you take?" 💸 "Just sent for your peace of mind, goddess" 🧘‍♀️💸
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New Dommes, your first quiet week is not evidence that you have failed. Your first month isn't either. Building an audience online takes time, and findom doesn't somehow bypass that reality simply because money is involved. One of the biggest mistakes I see is someone joining, posting constantly for five days, receiving very little attention, and immediately deciding the entire community doesn't work. Five days is nothing. People barely know you exist yet. Instead of asking, “Why isn't anyone sending to me?” start asking questions that will actually help you grow. What makes my page different? What type of dynamic genuinely interests me? What kind of content do I enjoy creating? Which posts are people responding to? What boundaries do I need? What mistakes can I learn from? And am I actually enjoying the person I'm presenting online? You don't have to copy the loudest Domme on your timeline. You don't have to become harsher because somebody told you soft Dommes aren't “real” Dommes. You don't have to pretend to live a lifestyle you cannot afford just to look successful. Build something authentic to YOU. And while you're building, protect yourself. Learn the common scams. Be cautious about enormous promises from strangers. Don't let time-wasters consume your entire day. Maintain your boundaries and remember that attention and promises are not the same thing as genuine support. Some weeks may be fantastic. Some may be completely quiet. That is why consistency matters more than constantly judging yourself by today's numbers. Your page might have 200 followers today and thousands someday, but you'll never discover its potential if you delete everything because week one wasn't perfect. Give yourself time. Your job at the beginning isn't to already be successful. It's to BUILD. 👑✨
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NO 👏🏼 FREE 👏🏼 CONVERSATIONS 👏🏼 PAY 👏🏼 FOR 👏🏼 HER 👏🏼 TIME 👏🏼 OR 👏🏼 GO 👏🏼 CRY
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This little piggy gave up his wallet💰 This little piggy begged to serve 🫰 This little piggy sent every cent💸 This little piggy worshipped with verve 🧎‍♂️ And THIS little piggy cried, 'Anything for you Goddess!' all the way home🏠
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She's not your friend, she's your superior. 👑 Respect her with money.
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