for nigerian women, it’s not just about wanting better but also how condescending they are to people on the same level as them or slightly above them. a girl in 100 level will look you in the face and tell you she doesn’t like dating small boys. meanwhile, the ‘small boys’ she’s referring to are her coursemates. “i saw a guy today, he was so clean and handsome, speaks so well. the only thing that spoilt his rep was that he was driving a corolla” - the words of a nail tech without bicycle. ask a lady if she will marry a co-worker in the same department, she will tell you ‘no’. after she tells you no, tell her to state her reasons, you will understand this thread.