JB

I will weigh in on this conversation as someone who lived in the uk 🇬🇧 before moving to Canada 🇨🇦, I had male colleagues at work who will show up with freshly made food cooked by their wives yet they don’t know how to boil water, infact some of them work the same hours or even lesser hours than their wives, the problem I have with Nigerian 🇳🇬 men is not women not wanting to spilt it’s the fact that you want a working woman to still do unpaid labour for you without lifting a finger to help out in other department that’s exactly what this women are avoiding, as a man living abroad don’t marry a woman that will not help you financially because you’ll just kpai of bills via hypertension but at the same time don’t come abroad with men don’t enter kitchen mentality, there are days I come back from work and I’ll feel like fainting I go just chop bread sleep I don’t want to come back like that and someone expects me to cook Egusi because the same Nigerian men will date “oyibo” that eats take out everyday and be okay with it, but once it’s a Nigerian woman you want her to do 9 to 5, cook, clean, get pregnant give birth do school runs and still split 50/50 then if you see her she’ll be looking like a mad woman that’s unfair and I’m not mad at the single ladies who don’t want to do that it’s their choice leave them alone! Shalom!