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still figuring it out

Joined December 2017
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the older you get the more you increasingly see that luck is mostly about exposure staying in one place with the same routines and people means nothing new occurs, so you must actively engage the world by traveling more and talking to others in order to succeed.
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People have no idea how special it is to be sensitive. To feel a lot. To treasure sentimental moments other people don’t notice. To want the best for humanity and to believe in a new future. There’s a pureness to sensitivity that goes unnoticed.
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all you need is one good month pray this month favour us
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what kinda poor mentality tweets is this 😭😭😭
Train yourself to handle life without ever borrowing money.
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i really dislike bad manners. why do grown adults find it hard to say please, thank you, & excuse me? you literally get taught all these as a child.
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Please, if you lose interest in a person make them aware. The coldness in ur tone and texts, the emptiness in your hugs, and spaces in your conversations... calls not answered, those things hurt more than if you were to tell the truth, because they are like a slow death.
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dear lord, $1M 🙏🏿
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Getting cheated on is actually traumatizing idk why y’all try to downplay betrayal.
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Greed is neither inherently good nor bad; it all depends on what we humans are greedy for whether it’s kindness, love, money, or power.
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Stupid people instead of targeting the companies they targeting the poor people 🤦🏿‍♂️
NAFDAC yesterday embarked on nationwide enforcement against all alcoholic beverages packaged in sachets and polyethylene terephthalate, PET, bottles below 200 millilitres, marking the full implementation of the federal government’s ban on the products.
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Loving a partner who grew up in survival mode takes a lot of patience, clear boundaries, and grace as they learn love beyond survival.
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hardest pill to swallow is realizing people DO NOT CARE. they’ll hurt you & really go on about their lives. not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships, or family.
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it's very manipulative that our angry side is always seen as our “true colours”, as if when we are happy and being kind, we're being fake
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wait, you people are earning N400k monthly?
My July budget (salary 400,000) Tithe- 40,000 Piggy vest- 50,000 Marriage money -30,000 Japa savings - 35,000 (Incase if Apc rigs) Transportation- 45,000 Emergency fund- 30,000 Data- 60,000 Feeding -100,000 Nepa bill -10,000
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In order for a relationship to work you have to be with somebody that loves you enough to cut anything off that jeopardizes y'all.
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imagine telling all your trauma to someone you’re dating & they turn around and traumatize you the same way because they knew your weakness. this sounds like a nightmare.
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Y’all lack communication skills because instead of taking what the other person is saying into consideration... You become defensive because you only listening to defend the points that make you look bad. That's the disconnect right there.
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Being in a healthy relationship has really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings, you adjust, grow & heal together
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growing up, i wasn’t given the space to make mistakes. and when you think about it, it’s really awful considering children know nothing. it is their birthright to be allowed to make mistakes & learn through trial and error as they evolve.
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Even when they graduate
We need to talk about how parents abandon their male children when they're in the university.
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