Men don’t approach women in public because we told them it was annoying and creepy. In retrospect we probably should have just taught them what we don’t think is creepy but we didn’t so if you’re attracted to men you’re gonna have to approach them now, they won’t do it anymore.
my hot take and they’re going to burn me at the stake: PART of the reason men don’t approach women anymore is because of unisex fashion. the jorts, baggy jeans, oversized everything. men are drawn to dimorphism, things that are undeniably “woman.” dresses, skirts, heels
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She's right about the oversized fashion though, it looks like shit.
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I once went home with a dude from the bar and I was wearing pajamas with someone else’s jacket over them

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That doesn’t mean shit. Why did you go to a bar looking like a lazy slob?
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not trying to be mean, but that means nothing , men will fuck anything esp if they perceive you as easy ..now if he actually courted you.. did dates, communicated etc wanted to date and not just fuck, your point would be more valid
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Thats because youre a gardening tool
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He was thirsty.
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how many times did he say sorry
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I can't believe I've had to whip this one out so often lately
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women chronically underestimate just how straight most men are. assuming you're cute, your dad's old shorts and a stained nighty is not a dealbreaker
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Theres nothing a guy finds more attractive than whatever woman is currently talking to him.
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As a woman I hate to admit that the guys are right. he just wanted to hook up and you probably looked easy
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Pajamas r still more attractive than jorts or ginormous jeans
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Pajamas are more attractive than baggy jeans.
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I once hooked up with a guy in my friend group, we all had drinks at home and everyone else left, I was in my slippers since the beginning lol
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Did he “leave the entire location before you had a chance to respond”?
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