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(he/they) just posts art sometimes these days

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Joined February 2015
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New pinned tweet with links: I do art and writing and stuff Patreon: patreon.com/kivabay Ko-fi, sometimes with a shop: ko-fi.com/kivabay Paypal: paypal.me/kivabay Cashapp: $Kivabay Email: [email protected]
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This cough is making it hard to breathe
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I am once again wishing a happy Circulatory System Walking Through the Kitchen Day to all who celebrate.
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Please, we can't do the drag discourse again. This place feels like being stuck in a timeloop
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I used to work as a cook in a drag bar and whenever this discourse starts I just try to bite my tongue because hoo boy.
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I think as a trans people we should probably care a lot less about other people's decisions about whether or not they're going on hormones, not matter if they're trans or GNC. I think we should just let people make their own choices around their own bodies?
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A butch taking T in no way takes away from my identity as a trans man, a trans man not taking T in no way takes away from my identity as a trans man, because I'm a trans man all the time. We should all learn to mind our own fucking business a little more.
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The way some people talk about trans men on this site does make me wish I was stealth, but I'm really glad I have irl queer community. Just have to remember that things are very different offline.
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I'm actually going to add as a bi person that you are way less likely to get ragebaited in an in person social setting with a group of actual people. Every year there's bi people are pride discourse and I'm starting to think it's all people who don't actually go to pride events
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Because people don't act like that in person usually, and if someone does, they get shut down in my experience. I heard somewhere once that something that causes road rage is the fact that we're all in our separate cars and that distance allows for it. Twitter feels like that.
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Where to put the cow by Anita Griffin Very good for learning composition ! fredgriffinart.com/GRAPHICDE…
question for artists: how do you actually learn and get better at composition?
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Reposting these two wonderful poems cuz this is the point of it all 🫶🏽 Having a Coke with You by Frank O'Hara Having "Having a Coke with You" with You by Mark Leidner
guys i think there’s something sacred in the mundane
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My Outlier pro strat is feminism and I'm not even kidding
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OUTLIER · Day 172 · 920 · 🦅 EAGLE EYES 🟪🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨 🎯 4 words nobody else has found yet · 🦄 6 found by under 1% of players 🚩 2 Pioneer words: nobody had ever found them before Can you find rarer? playoutlier.com/s/WF8FK6
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donelan talk on the tl reminded me of this post
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Once this happens, you need to get out of the relationship because it will only get worse and you will be what your abuser puts hands on. Trust me.
This is domestic violence. Destruction of property is also domestic violence. It's intimidation & violent assertion of control over a victim. It can also be, as appears in this case, a means of destroying the victim's independence & ability to escape. He's going to kill her.
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I tell myself it's not gonna go that way and stick around and every fucking time I end up being like "I should have expected that to escalate." Get out now.
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I didn't even know the name for this but I'm suddenly like "is this why I would get scared if I was alone in a pool, utterly convinced something was going to come out of the drain and attack me?" Like I thought that sharks or something would get me
The algorithm keeps showing me videos of submechanophobia and they are so similar to my recurring nightmares that one made me audibly yelp and turn off my phone screen. Deep, dark water with large things in it is such a specific phobia of mine but it really is a severe one for me
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It's almost relieving to see other people are frightened of it too. I can't really explain it but it literally makes me start shaking and panicking. And of course I always knew it was an irrational fear but I still can't stop my response. Unreasonable terror.
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It's not just the way it looks. Like the *sound* of an indoor pool with no people in it, the water on the tiles, I cannot explain why but it makes me want to puke and hide
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