Ollyz Man

19. The idea that your “best years” are behind you is the biggest lie you’ll ever hear.

18. Don't listen to that darn little voice urging you to make quick changes. Real transformation takes time. Don't give up.

17. The longer you wait to change, the more painful and expensive it becomes.

16. Start over as many times as it takes. People admire reinvention more than you think.

15. Nothing burns as bright as the peace that comes from making your own choices.

14. Want a better life? Change what you consume. News, food, and people.

13. The older you get, the fewer opinions you need. Keep your circle small and trustworthy.

12. Start building something you control. A skill. A business. A body that still works.

11. You won’t feel ready for most of the big decisions. You do it anyway and let time show you if it was right.

10. Life will hit you out of nowhere. Illness, divorce, job loss. The people who recover win.

9. You’re not burned out. You’re unaligned with the work you should be doing.

8. Time goes fast. Even faster when wasted chasing sh*t that doesn't matter.

7. Every argument in a relationship is just two wounded kids defending old fears inside grown-up bodies.

6. Most of your limits were installed by someone else. You’re living under rules that aren’t yours.

5. Don’t put off starting that business. The people you think are “too young” are building empires while you’re hesitating.

4. In ten years, your friend list will look nothing like today. Your best friend at 30 may be a stranger at 40. That's normal.

3. You’re not late. You’re not early. You’re not missing a bus, a window, or a train. Your timeline is yours alone.

2. If you don’t know who you are alone, every relationship will confuse the hell out of you.

I'm 55. If you're in your 30s or 40s, read this: 1. Marriage won’t fix loneliness. Neither will kids, money, or sex.