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NYT bestselling romance author & neurodiverse hot mess šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦BC summers & LA winters 🌓Lit rep: @rootliterary Screenwriting rep: @saraharnott1 šŸŽ„ IG @/authorhalle

Los Angeles, CA
Joined October 2009
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I miss my dog. He was the best of the best and part of my soul. Please post pictures of good doggos and kitties to boost my moodšŸ’” I want to see them all!
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My boy’s name is Bruce but he was also known as Boo Boo, Boofus, Mr. Poo, Boo Boo Pantaloni Pants and many more
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Donating Bruce’s beds to a local pitbull foster program, donating his food & treats (there’s a lot since we were doing everything to entice him to eat at the end) to another rescue here in LA that I’ve supported for a long time. Makes me feel a little better. He would want that.
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Dealing with ADHD is hard enough, but our emotional dysregulation means we feel everything so damn deeply. Which means dealing with grief is a motherfucker. It’s hard for anyone, period, but the losses cut extra deep & hard and timeblindness makes it last forever. I miss my dogšŸ’”
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Being trapped in our heads with obsessive thought patterns means dwelling on the same moments or feelings over and over again. It’s hell. But it explains why grief really does have no timeline for anyone, because everyone’s heart & chemistry is different.
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I’ve tried to find more info on dealing with grief as someone with ADHD or autism but there isn’t a lot out there. Just know if you’re grieving and you’re neurodivergent and you’re wondering why everyone looks at you strange for feeling so much for so long, there’s a reason.
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Karina Halle (on social media hiatus) retweeted
One reason why autists and ADHD’ers may grieve for longer is the ā€œtime blindnessā€ many of us have. The particularly fluid way we see and experience time can make it hard to give ourselves any closure we haven’t received and then move on, because our bodies won’t say ā€œit’s time!ā€.
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Life’s funny cuz everything seems ok. Not great cuz you’re suffering from depression but ok. Then your brother & your father & your dog die. ā€œThat’s the thing about unhappiness. All it takes is for something worse to come along & you realize it was actually happiness after all.ā€
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That quote was from The Crown. It really stuck with me. After my dad died all I wanted was a ā€œwinā€ in my career. Just some good news for once. It never came. And I thought well, maybe the win these days is that nothing worse has happened to you. And I was right. That was the win.
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I deleted my last tweet because I am stepping away again (I just needed to share my grief over Bruce🐾) But I will say, don’t be surprised if more & more authors step away from social media. Our empathy/sensitivity makes us great writers but also makes our accessibility a target.
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RIP Bruce. 10 beautiful years with the best dog in the world. You passed in my arms today, ready to go on your next adventure & into the arms of my father (see vid). To say we are devastated is an understatement but we are so grateful & lucky we were loved by you šŸ’”#AdoptDontShop
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My heart goes out to anyone who has lost a pet. Deep love = deep pain. Many people don’t understand what it feels like but I do & you’re not alone. I don’t know how to fill that absence or deal with fresh grief again, but I know I’ll try. I guess that’s all we can do.ā¤ļøšŸ¾
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