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What if the reason youâre still alone isâŠyou youtube.com/watch?v=N_5gwSXUâŠ
My dating reminders:
Speak Honestly
Listen Intently
Ask Meaningfully
Stay Curious
Share Passions
Compliment Thoughtfully
Show Vulnerability
Remain Independent
Call Them
Act Decisively
Unless you want to stay âjust friendsâ with women, youâll need to get physical on dates.
The key is knowing WHEN to touch them naturally & respectfully.
In this video, Iâll teach you my foolproof traffic light system to make a move with confidence. youtu.be/DYkifqUryAM
The right person isn't sitting there judging your text messages. They're too busy smiling at seeing your name pop up on their screen.
Want more sex with your girlfriend?
Do the dishes or vacuum the house.
Seriously, it worksâyou're underestimating how much that'll get you laid.
Struggling to talk to new people?
I used to feel invisible, terrified of real-world connections. I hid behind a screen until I was 19.
Now? I chat with anyone, anywhere â and I love it. đ
When youâre willing to be seen â truly seen â everything changes.
The moment you accept that some might judge you (and thatâs okay), you can finally look others in the eyes as equals.
Sometimes I think, "Why don't kids today listen to REAL music? Like when OutKast was dropping bangers like Ms. Jackson."
Then it hits me: that was 25 years ago.
That's like me complaining in 2000 that no one was bumping Captain & Tennille and John Denver. đ
Damn, Iâm ancient.
When you chase someone who doesn't invest in you, you've already lost.
Because without their respect, you don't have anything.
Blaming your partner for something they donât know theyâre doingâŠ
is like yelling at your dog for not understanding algebra. (1/4)
The irony is that we spend more energy being upset about whatâs unsaid than it would take to have an honest conversation.
Instead of letting resentment build, ask yourself, âHave I actually told them whatâs bothering me?â (3/4)
Emotional cheating is still cheating.
If you're hiding conversations from your partner...
You're already balls deep in an affair. đ
Cheating doesnât always start with big actions -- it often begins with small secrets.
If youâre lying about where you are or feeling guilty about spending time with someone else, take a moment to reflect.