To change your habits you must change yourself, so write down a description of who you want to be. design yourself on paper then design yourself in practice.
Life took me through some dark places, but I never stopped pushing. I bent, I broke, I rebuilt. I’m proud of the person I fought to become.
A man who survived his darkest moments alone no longer fears losing people. He’s already learned that his strength doesn’t depend on who stays or who leaves.
Pay attention to how people treat you when you can no longer do anything for them.
It’s easy to appreciate someone when you’re benefiting from their presence.
Character shows when there’s nothing left to gain.
Walking away doesn’t always mean you stopped caring.
Sometimes it means you finally realized that caring about someone shouldn’t require you to continuously neglect yourself.
You can love people and still choose yourself.
Here’s a question that might make some people uncomfortable…
Are you genuinely happy with your life, or have you just gotten comfortable with what you’ve accepted?
Because there’s a big difference between being content and being afraid to make a change.
Better days are coming. You’ve been through enough. Now it’s your turn to be blessed.
Save this reminder!
One thing I’ve learned about growth is that not everyone is going to celebrate the person you’re becoming. Some people benefited from the version of you that didn’t have boundaries.
Growth doesn’t just change you. It changes who gets access to you.

