There’s something sick about this. Yes, you’re supposed to teach your son discipline. A teenager needs to learn that when someone says stop, you stop, especially when they’re trying to leave. But telling your son, who is doing what he thinks is a harmless joke with his sister, “Do you know what a boy who doesn’t stop when a girl says stop grows up to be? A man who doesn’t stop when a woman says no” is telling him, “This behaviour is evidence of the kind of sexual predator you could become.” And telling your son that your own experience of sexual violation “still lives in your body” because he was picking on his own SISTER is an enormous emotional burden to put on that child. Discipline the boy. Teach him boundaries. Make him understand that “stop” means stop. But why are you comparing a teenage boy teasing his sister to the man who assaulted his mother? Have we all lost our minds???