My boys, on various occasions, would ask which one is my favorite and my answer was always this: if a train is coming down the tracks and all three of us are on them, who will I save? They would point at each other and I replied, both. I will push you both safely off and take the train on myself. There is no scenario where I wouldn’t risk it all for them to live. They are grown ass men now but I’m still gonna push them off the track.