There's a man in my former neighborhood whose wife sex-starved him for more than six months. - If she wanted turkey and he didn't have the money for it, there would be no sex for the next three to seven days. - If she did something wrong and he raised his voice at her, she would go to bed as early as 7 pm just to make sure he had no chance to talk about sex. If he tried to wake her, she would simply walk down to the living room with her pillow and sleep there. The last straw came after she gave birth to their son, five years into the marriage. She told him plainly, "There will be no sex until I stop breastfeeding this child. I cannot be feeding him with my blood and still feed you with my blood at night. I don't have that strength." He complained to some elders, but they told him she would come around and that she was probably just tired. Three months passed and he tried again. She reminded him of what she had said. Four months, six months, the same response. He then casually threatened to divorce her if she didn't comply. She replied, "Do your worst. After all, you haven't bought anything for me in this marriage, and my friend who got married two years ago already has a car." He divorced her after that. Above all, love God.