When my marriage was ending, I told myself that I had lost control of the marriage. But the reality is that a man is never in control in marriage. That's why you also saw the other mr. happily married man asking for permission to lead. But it could also be my bitterness speaking.
A man who goes to church is simply looking to become a husband one day. Church is the only place that allows Kinuthias to thrive in their weakness. They are after all the source of power behind the Christian god.
The problem with Mercy was the title of her seminar. She should have named it a Masterclass in taming your Kinuthia. That would have been a masterstroke. No woman is interested in being a biblical wife.
Marriage does not have the structures for a woman to submit to a man. Those structures were designed for men to submit to women by shedding off their God status. That's why a man building with a woman is actual her building herself through him.
Very true what she said. Husbands are not for sex, they are for provision. The promise of sex is to lure you like a moth to light. Sex is reserved for the untamed guy, who will give her the children that you the husband will raise for her. Tough .
Every house I went to growing up had the 'christ is the head of this house' plaque on the wall. So when trouble strikes and the couple decides to go for counselling or seek third party intervention, how are humans going to succeed where Jesus failed?
I learned that it's great when you're down as a man sometimes. That's when you'll know what those smiling at you all the time really think about you. And at that point the need to be liked disappears and you get to focus more on yourself.
Enda katafute ule morio ako na g baga jat. Huyo hatakusumbua.
How can you deal with a boyfriend mwenye anakula kula anyhow. Yes ako na pesa hana familia but siku nimeenda kwake huwa anakulanisha hadi namshangaa.
Lunch tunakula ugali nyama saa saba, saa nane anachukua yoghurt, kidogo kidogo anachukua biscuit, mara anakula queen cake, anafungua soda.
Yani before masaa ya supper ifike amekula mara kama kumi.
Yani huwa ananiboo na ni mtu ako 30yrs.
Mkikula breakfast saa mbili, immediately ashaanza kuuliza mtakula nini lunch yani mtu amefura ako na 80kgs amenonanisha na ni mfupi tumbo limejaa kujaa... 😄
You are in love and you want to share your private thougts with your woman, that's nice. Just remember anything you say can and will be used against you when the opportunity arises, and be assured it will.
People will tell you to be aggressive when you are building yourself up, then once you're on top they want you to be humble. F*ck that. At that point arrogance is a virtue.








