Sometimes I wonder how much of this working vs. SAH debate is just two completely different groups arguing about fundamentally different choices. If you’ve spent years cultivating a career you enjoy, it’s a different calculus than if you’ve had “jobs” but not really a “career.”
In my region this does not have a name, but my Massachusetts relatives call it “American chop suey,” and the only time I eat it is when I’m visiting them lol.
Ok well some people like their friends so
Replying to @surplusnjoyment
Airbnb weekend couples getaway sounds like hell on earth kids or no kids
Perhaps apropos of recent convos, my ILs invited us to Thanksgiving on their farm but we’ve planned to stay home. I was worried about how to respond, meanwhile my husband immediately says, “we love tgiving at the farm but we’re staying home this year. Thanks for the invite!” Oh!
Time for my annual “it’s not a replacement but an additional event that you’re not required to attend” tweet. We went to a trunk or treat last weekend, fun! We’ll also be trick or treating with our neighbors on actual Halloween.
The first year we did this trip, my youngest was an infant and we stayed ~2 hour drive from my house. So I just went one night instead of all three. Idk, there’s often an array of options between “yes” and “no,” just gotta get comfortable with open and honest communication.
If Airbnbs are essentially operating as hotels then they would presumably go in and clean (or have professional cleaners) within hours of guests leaving…or are hosts basically trusting guests to clean enough that they don’t check on the place for days???
Wait. You're not supposed to clean up after yourself when you stay somewhere?
I can't wrap my head around they can't require you to do dishes thing... It's a food safety thing. Dirty dishes you leave can attract rats, flies, ants, and be a breeding ground for mold. If you dont wanna wash dishes, bring disposable dishes.
This is bananas!! If you and your partner both have middle seats, you simply cannot ask someone to switch — especially for a 10-hour flight!! And if you can’t last one flight without sitting next to your partner, seek help for codependency that’s impacting quality of life lmao.
Airline passenger in tears after seatmate refused to switch so she could be near husband: 'Ultimate white tears' trib.al/GzKqyqD
I’m sorry but this is so funny 😭😭 I don’t think an encyclopedic knowledge of global electricity standards is the best metric for how well-traveled someone is. Anyway, I don’t use a blow dryer so this convo is largely moot for me lmao.












