they/them | 26 | retired discourse doll, new career in the works
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ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
I don’t think we should genericize the term “Turtle Island” (=North America/Earth) as just a pro-Indigenous word for North America, when it’s actually like a specific name connected to mythology of the Lenape and Haudenosaunee that isn’t necessarily shared across the continent
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
The problem with casual dating isn’t mixed signals, it’s that people have different definitions of what counts as casual. Sex is pretty intimate, so sometimes things can get a bit confusing. But it's okay to set boundaries on what behaviors are and aren't allowed in your dynamic.
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
You know what I just realized, I think what we might’ve needed maybe even more than the celebrations was grief spaces
That’s a good container for a sign of relief
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
Saying indigenous people have a relationship and knowledge of the land isn't thinking indigenous people are magic it's literally just what happens when you live somewhere for a long ass time when you and your family live in a place for decades centuries a literal millenia
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
At lot of you guys are skilled at improving how you’re perceived while remaining almost completely uninterested in improving how you’re being experienced.
You can be cute but emotionally exhausting to be around.
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
I do think this is evidence for my most important belief which is that the relationship you have with another person is ultimately 1 of 1 and unique to you two- nothing anyone else has or does can change that
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
4. By wasting so much time building an illusion of scarcity you're creating a mental expectation of a reward to match the effort that you will never be able to live up to. You've compelled them to create an imagined, idealized version of you rather than building anything real.
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
Way too many people think playing hard to get, ghosting, or seeming disinterested is a viable or even necessary tactic in dating, and then just end up sabotaging themselves. I'd like to lay out some basic facts everyone who thinks this way should know 🧵
retweeting bc same even if by high i mean ruminating and by good ass mood i mean emotionally dysregulated
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ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
If you see me tweeting this much just know I’m high AND in a good ass mood
peep how they say “other relationships” not just other romantic connections. your partner’s friends and family will reveal different aspects of them too and that’s so very beautiful to me
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
I was SHOOK when I first saw how differently my partners could behave in other relationships. The funny thing about polyamory is that sometimes it reveals things about our partners that we literally would not have seen in any other context.
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
People don't talk enough about how easily people with NPD can be manipulated and groomed its really sad
ART survived the kelela concert retweeted
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