BLADE ESCOBAR

The day I met my wife, I knew she was my wife. No guessing. That whole "real man" trap? She never used it. She called first. Texted first. Pulled up on ME. Drove to see ME. She didn’t wait for me to do all these first. I didn't have to buy her love…SHE was buying ME gifts. Came back from Japan with clothes, shoes, watches for her man. With HER money. She planned dates. She paid for dates. She asked me about MY dreams and pushed me. When I failed, she didn't weaponize it. She smiled and said "you'll kill it next time, I got a cold Guinness waiting in the fridge for you. We were both pouring into each other. Both investing. ONE YEAR. She showed me in one year she was WIFE MATERIAL without me begging, without me forcing. That's a REAL woman. She invests. She builds. She pours into her man. Now look at our mothers. They came READY. Their mama raised them to be WIVES. How to cook, how to respect, how to shut up, how to support a man. Our dads didn't have to train a grown woman like a child. Modern women? Raised to be INDEPENDENT. Translation: selfish, masculine, lazy, entitled. Raised to be BOSSES. Translation: disrespectful, argumentative, unsubmissive. But they were raised PERFECTLY when it comes to knowing what to EXTRACT from a man. They know every trick to GET. Buy me this, pay my rent, fund my lifestyle. Try being a "real man" for them. See what happens. You marry her, then you ask for a hot plate of food - she has attitude. You ask for sex - she has a headache. You ask for peace - she starts a fight. You ask for respect - she calls you insecure. They don't know how to BE wives. And they expect YOU to teach them, to make them want to do it. You are supposed to be their father, their therapist, their teacher, their ATM, and their husband.