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We're doing our first live lecture in #Amsterdam on Sep 4th: The Psychology of Kink. buff.ly/2vxXgzO For medical professionals and everybody interested. #evenement #artsen #gezondheidszorg #verpleegkundigen #kraamzorg #verloskundigen #psycholoog #huisarts

You might be surprised to discover that feet are considered the most commonly fetishized non-sexual body part. That’s right, there’s a lot happening below the ankles. buff.ly/2NtfsDM #boldpleasures #footfetish #ditchshame #kink

When I'm good, I'm very good, but when I'm bad, I'm better. - Mae West #boldpleasures #ditchshame #wednesdaywisdom

A5: As live and society evolves so will kinks and fetishes. Life is about learning, and learning about new fetishes and kinks can prompt a reaction in you. Also some fetishes and kinks can wane as others become more prominent. #SexTalkTuesday #ditchshame

A4: Communicate, respectfully, openly, and allow other people not to understand what it's about. Calmly explain if that is the case. Most people are very open minded, those who are closed minded are not the ones to talk to. And remember, you are you. #SexTalkTuesday #ditchshame

I think generalising based on a gender is never a smart thing. Also I'd venture that due to either trauma or bad association there are plenty people out there that will not have the fantasy but more often have the #fear. #SexTalkTuesday #ditchshame

A3: Find a community of people who share your fetish or kink. Nowadays there are plenty of #safespaces for all kinds of #kinks and #fetishes. And of course you can always ask our #experts on our website bit.ly/2Qdkt65 It's what we do! #SexTalkTuesday #ditchshame

A2: Yes, although "vannilas" don't often know or want to admit to it. But when you #ditchshame you see that everyone has a fetish or kink in the end, even if it's "just" liking it when your partner spanks you. #SexTalkTuesday

A1: A kink and a fetish are pretty much the same when you think of it. Although fetishes are more associated with sexual gratification through objects. Kink is often sexual gratification through deeds or experiences #sextalktuesday #Dtichshame

And we're in! @jay_tesst on behalf of Boldpleasures (as I am it's new CEO).

The ZADO Spreader bar - what did Tess think of it? This #TesstTuesday we're going to find out more ... #zadospreaderbar #bdsm #kink #boldpleasures #ditchshame buff.ly/2Me5OXR

Consensual adult spanking is a cornerstone of BDSM. It’s such an amazing technique, because you need no props, you can do it anywhere. buff.ly/320iSTn #boldpleasures #ditchshame #spanking #kink

Submission is a gift and Dominance a privilege. Never take either for granted. #boldpleasures #ditchshame #wednesdaywisdom

What's so exciting about the HURTME Ballbuster paddle? This #tessttuesday Tess gives it a try and gives us her honest review. #tesstests #bdsm #ballbuster #boldpleasures #ditchshame buff.ly/2PFAa3e

In a society which is more open and positive about sex than ever, the stigma remains because people don’t truly understand. This is strange, even after the success of the Fifty Shades book series. Kink is a hobby, not a disorder buff.ly/2QzxDaA #boldpleasures #ditchshame

All you can do is pick partners carefully. Trust they care about you as much as you care about them. And accept that, rules or no rules, the only actions that you control are your own. - Hans West #boldpleasures #ditchshame #WednesdayWisdom

It's time for #TesstTuesday. This time around, Tess talks about the Master Series: Whip with Chains. Find out what she thought of it here. buff.ly/2E5w96x #boldpleasures #masterseries #whip #bdsm #ditchshame

It’s Friday afternoon, and you’ve taken your lunch break with some colleagues at your usual spot in the staff canteen.... What if your conversations turn to kink? #boldpleasures #ditchshame #kinktober #fetish #bdsm #ThrowbackThursday buff.ly/2QzxDaA

Do one thing every day that scares you. - Eleanor Roosevelt #boldpleasures #ditchshame #WednesdayWisdom #WednesdayThoughts #kinktober

The We-Vibe Jive is a wearable toy as we call it. A toy you can wear. This enables you to just walk around with it... Read more ... buff.ly/2vJvdgW #boldpleasures #ditchshame #tesstests #testtuesday #wevibe #kinktober