yasin

I’ve always been asexual. Classmates in high school felt the need and drive to have sex, I never did. It took me until my senior year to even conceptualize that people felt driven to sleep with someone at all. It was well into my 20s I realized that some people feel sexual attraction immediately. It was after that I finally accepted the asexual label as being accurate because while I can identify conventionally attractive people, I’ve never felt driven to desire sex with them for it. That feeling is what asexual means for me. People who identify as asexual or someone other identity in the umbrella may rarely feel some sexual attraction, but not me. Never wanted sex, never felt like I wanted to have sex with any specific person. At most, I want relationships for cuddling or kissing or handholding, and not much more! That’s all how and why I identify as asexual.