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If you interpret my words in bad faith, that’s on you, not on me.

Joined January 2022
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FUB free. ‘Cause I’m here to rant a lot and be a heavy retweeter, usually.
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The moment people begin examining the structures behind their suffering, the conversation changes from personal failure to collective responsibility.
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I don’t like when people turn weirdo over things that could have been solved by a simple conversation… now I don’t respect you and we’ll never speak again.
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It’s so funny to me when you see a bitch talking about herself😭 like bitch that’s you, you do that 😂😂
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Some of you are too grown and financially independent to still be putting men on a pedestal like that. You haven't demystified men, even when you think so little of them.
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selama kenal org aku gk pernah tertarik atau berani nanya lebih tentang org itu kecuali orgnya sendiri yg cerita, aku paham bgt kadang ada bbrpa org yg gak nyaman ditanya² gtu begitupun aku sendiri, makannya aku gk lakuin itu ke org lain juga🙌🏻
Temenan tapi gue gak tau dia kuliah apa jurusan apa atau kerja apa, gak mau cari tau juga selama dia gak cerita sendiri, ketemu ya bahas hobi aja 😭 Bisa kok ngobrol tanpa bahas pendidikan/kerja, yuk bisa
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Replying to @twiceasmanypigs
I feel so sad whenever I encounter this bcs it just shows that ppl’s imagination of a better world is so limited…they would take anything that is slightly better than this krn mereka ga kebayang bahwa kita bisa bikin cita2 politik yg ngebebasin semua org, asal usahanya tepat
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Malah as leftists we need to be more annoying with each other to improve even further. I think the tendency of right wing politics is of "unquestionable conviction" which causes any kind of criticism and questions to be seen as threat, as a "division"
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Penting adanya kita ga cuma mentingin siapa yg paling kuat dari sisi jumlah, krn kalo rezim beneran berhasil digulingkan, gmn cara supaya sisi yg menggulingkan itu ga mengulang kesalahan rezim? Ga usah malu kalo ditegur krn salah, tinggal terima kamu salah n learn to be better
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Criticizing each other EVEN when youre on the same side is necessary to train n improve pemikiran masing2, ga cuma menang angka doang. Kubu kanan cuma terlihat kompak krn udh jelas bgt we see the evidence everyday that mereka ngikut2 tokoh2 yg paling dominan tanpa mikir
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"Genz dipecahkan dgn homofobia" is so nothingburger bc leftists get annoyed by leftists all the time, theres always sth among leftists to be discussed n argued abt. Centrists n liberals mewek dikit tiap ditegur, "kalo gini gmn mau maju" ya berarti lu-nya aja emg ga ada niat mikir
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ion respect when bitches be feeling like shit can't happen to them, them tables turn faster then mf watch what you say
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gila qrt nya menunjukkan bahwa buanyak laki-laki yg tidak kompeten malah 'berkeluarga'💀 rasa nyaman adalah jebakan sih kalo kata gw alias udah jd tanggung jawab yg mengambil pilihan untuk menikah dan jadi kepala rumah tangga
bokap gw early 2010an gajinya hampir 3 digit tapi memilih resign tanpa backup, gue dan adik masih SD waktu itu. alasan bokap resign karena gak kuat di kerjaan yg udah dia gelutin selama belasan tahun. setelahnya? nyokap yg luntang lantung ngidupin gue dan adek. bokap? santai —
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Compatibility refers to values and goals and certain preferences, though. Some of those things you can't negotiate just because you have chemistry with someone. There are definitely people out there who you can share chemistry with and be more compatible with without-
i think no-one is really compatible, both platonically or romantically. i think you choose the people by your side and you make constant efforts and learn how to love them and cherish them and i think that's so much more beautiful than just fate or compatibility
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@ fellow queers kalau opini kalian tentang queer dan/atau kelompok marjinal lain disetujui oleh para homophobes & ableist i think it's time to rethink those opinions #sebuahsaran
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i genuinely believe the ideology that you can "co-exist with people with different political views" is a load of bullshit. if your political views threaten the rights of any of my mutuals, friends and family i don't want anything to do with you
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hey guys is it misogyny to demand straight women not to behave like an incel
Replying to @SUK4UNA
it’s not okay to be misogynistic to straight women just because they’re straight
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abis liat post-an yang bilang beauty privilege itu nyata (dan memang bener) terus dia menyarankan kita semua buat improve overall looks. gimana kalo kita mulai menormalisasikan keberagaman fisik dan stop menjadikan standar kecantikan sebagai tolok ukur nilai seseorang?
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bisa dimulai dari: kalau temen lu curhat disakitin cowo, jangan respon dengan "yuk bisa fokus diri sendiri aja dulu, glow up, ntar otomatis cowo banyak yg suka" 💀 kesannya kayak seseorang wajar diperlakukan buruk due to their physical appearance. weird ahh thing to say.
abis liat post-an yang bilang beauty privilege itu nyata (dan memang bener) terus dia menyarankan kita semua buat improve overall looks. gimana kalo kita mulai menormalisasikan keberagaman fisik dan stop menjadikan standar kecantikan sebagai tolok ukur nilai seseorang?
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Satu lagi yang ga kalah performatif, rutin dateng aksi tapi gak pernah memastikan perspektif orang-orang yang terlibat di dalamnya soal kelompok rentan, kelas, gender, dan penanganan KS.
gerakan perlawanan apapun kalau masih berdiri di atas peminggiran kelompok queer dan disabilitas ya jadinya performatif, mau melawan rezim tapi wataknya rezim juga
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