Author, speaker, creator, and founder of Help For Men. I help men become more secure and have better relationships.
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Greetings to everyone who has just discovered yours truly! I am an author, speaker, coach, and founder of Help For Men. If you're a dude struggling in relationships, you'll probably enjoy my stuff. Check out the links in my profile. My most popular book: deadbdroomfix.com
What every guy with a wife going through perimenopause wants to know. "So... like... when does this stop? What then? Is this just... life... from now on?"
What have you guys experienced? HRT? Counseling? Grey divorce?
Recent video I did on the subject:
Sexless Marriage: She Was the Sexual One for 20 Years. Then Perimenopause Hit.
youtu.be/LkPFhIHs1Js
I hear from men whose wives cheated, and a friend of hers almost always knew.
You don’t rat out your friends. Normally I respect that.
But that friend will tell you “it wasn’t my secret to tell,” after watching you book a family vacation.
You’re not crazy for seeing her differently. Decide what that friendship is and say so.
These same women after taking testosterone: "Oooooh... now I get it."
I don’t believe most men are actually as horny as they claim, rather they are addicted to the ego validation/control that sexual access represents just as a woman who frequently posts half naked pictures of herself isn’t usually advertising that she’s wanting to have sex but is instead looking for validation that she is sexually desirable
I’ve talked about dead bedrooms for over a decade, and one of the biggest things I’ve figured out is simple.
A lot of dead bedrooms come from a gap that was there on day one. Two people with very different wiring got married and hoped it would even out.
It doesn’t even out. Pick someone on your side of the fence.
