Let me be clear. I’m not against submission as a kink. There is a healthy path to it. But most findommes here are sex workers who don’t genuinely care about subs or enjoy the kink.
Many subs are also addicts. Kick the addiction first, then you can healthily engage in fetishes
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This may be one of the best explanations of male depression that I’ve ever heard. This is explains why guys are suicidal and their friends, parents, and/or wives don’t even know it. This is also why a man can be married with kids, great job, etc. & feel lonely & depressed.
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Day 7. Feeling energized this morning after a week away. Haven’t been fapping much either, it really does fog your brain so much to be fapping every day. Heading to the gym, and ready for another great day free of findom 💪
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I'm begging you to please start taking your life more seriously. You don't have much time on this earth. Stop wasting it by doomscrolling, partying, and numbing your mind with cheap dopamine. Lock in. Fix your finances. Improve your relationships. Get in shape because looking good matters. Surround yourself with people who push you to be better. You'd be surprised by just how great your life will be if you just took yourself more seriously.
You’re only addicted because you’re avoiding something bigger in your life. Make that leap you know you need to make. Face that fear you know you need to face. Take one step away from this evil addiction
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If you’re looking for a healthy relationship, leave findom immediately. Genuine connections with a findom are extremely rare. Most of them will say exciting things to you, then abandon you at the first opportunity. That’s how the game works
✅95 days without findom
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the first real step isn’t “I’ll stop forever”.
it’s smaller.
- delete the app for 48 hours
- freeze the card you use for tributes
- block the 3 accounts you keep reopening
- tell one person (even if it’s just a DM here)
the send gets harder when you add friction.
you don’t need to be strong forever.
you need to make the next send a little more difficult.
who’s doing one of these this week?
drop which one.
Day 6. Had some strong urges last night but managed to get to bed without a relapse. Feeling much more clear headed today. To-do lists are helping fill the free time, and then I’ll be off to work. One day at a time
The main reason you’re scared to quit findom is you don’t know what you’ll be without it
You’ve built an identity around it
What if I told you that identity is false and the real you has been screaming to get out this whole time?
Visualize the ideal you. Set him free
Day 5. Every day without findom feels better than the day before. Something inside me has really switched off the cravings finally. I feel free today
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Neuroplasticity means your brain reshapes itself around your habits of attention, which is why focusing on the good gradually trains you to find more of it everywhere you look. Whatever you pay attention to multiplies. Synapses that fire together wire together, so feed the patterns you actually want to keep.
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Single, 35.
This man has no idea how much encouragement he just gave to thousands of us.
