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Learn. Build. Grow.

South Africa
Joined March 2013
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I will remove anyone from my life to protect the peace that l've worked so hard for. Nobody took me out of the dark, I did it my own.
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You don’t get to hurt someone, trigger them, and then police their reaction. You can’t focus on how they reacted and ignore what made them react that way.
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They hate when they realize they had negative pre-conceived notions about you & were completely wrong
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“Once you learn patience, your options suddenly expand.” — Robert Greene
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What scares people is not assuming you will win. It is knowing you will be functional even if you lose. You become outcome independent. Why this instills fear? Nothing moves you. Nothing scares you. You can't be competed against. You can't be negotiated against. A man who doesn't fear losing is exponentially threatening.
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NEVER be in a hurry to prove how smart you are. LISTEN, OBSERVE, and let people reveal what they would hide if they knew what you knew.
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Not every comeback looks like a new car, a bigger bank account, or a house. Sometimes the comeback is sleeping through the night. Laughing without forcing it. Letting your mind rest instead of replaying everything. Not checking on the people who hurt you. Sitting alone and realizing the quiet finally feels like peace. That is the win nobody can see, and it might be the biggest one.
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The people who benefited from your lack of boundaries may suddenly accuse you of becoming selfish. Those who expected you to remain silent may call you disrespectful when you finally speak. Those who were comfortable with your constant availability may become offended when you begin protecting your time. They may describe your growth as arrogance because they preferred the version of you who was easier to influence.
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A narcissist is: A victim of everything, responsible for nothing, offended by everything, contributing nothing, yet entitled to everything. - Libriscent
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Don’t allow feeling lonely to push you into the arms of a person who will make you miserable.
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能把别人看透,说明你很聪明。能把自己看透,才是真正的智慧。当你看清自己的欲望、恐惧与动机后,就能理解他人的行为与选择背后的逻辑。了解自己,才能理解他人。看透自己,才能看透他人。
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The cheat code is authenticity.
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a dead giveaway someone is jealous & envys you is when they start acting passive aggressively when you start winning.
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Imagine you wish negativity on me and it backfires. Be careful love, I'm protected
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Unnecessary humility will make people see you as a weak and incompetent person. It’s much better they call you arrogant, proud or abnormal. That way, they can’t exploit you in any form. The latter tags scares predators away.
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The people who broke you won’t always understand what they changed in you
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The ultimate power move isn't a dramatic confrontation; it’s quietly removing your presence from spaces where your peace is negotiated.
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being comfortable with dislike from people of poor character is a sign of intelligence.
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I will Forever show favoritism to people who are genuinely kind to me, and I’ll make it obvious because I don’t care. They deserve it. 🤷‍♀️
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Sometimes, the truth hurts your feelings because it threatens the lies you've learned to live with.
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