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talking (& writing) fat representation in media🎙️ more than tracy turnblad podcast & tiktok (64k) literary rep: ethan schlatter at UTA

Los Angeles, USA
Joined July 2018
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Soooo for those who have not heard, I wrote a book! A plus-size small-town Vermont romcom, to be exact! I recently signed with a literary agent and am now prepping to submit it to publishers :)
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YESSS this is why romcoms have side characters!!!
This is why your social life has to include a lot of low-stakes, mixed-gender, mixed-age interactions. Including at least one older couple who can say to clueless men "she's into you, dummy, go for it" and to women "stop saying that, you're scaring the men off"
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My bf and I were not only introduced but heavily encouraged in a “she’s into it, you dummy” kind of way (which we both needed bc we were shy). If you are nervous about showing interest this is kind of the only way to meet off a dating app
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I do have suchhhhh personal beef with the guys who make whole platforms off of blatantly objectifying, stereotyping, and sexualizing fat women and act like they’re doing activism or something 🙃
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And to the women who eat it up like candy…stand up!!
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Milestones/accomplishments I believe are just as deserving of praise as marriage/kids: -getting an advanced degree -getting a new job or promotion -career change -moving to a new city -buying a car -finishing a creative project -taking yourself on an international trip
how the milestones get framed: the girlfriend, the engagement, the wedding, the house, the kids. Each one gets celebrated like a promotion. Meanwhile, someone who spent those same years building a career, healing, or figuring out who they are gets asked, ‘So, anyone special?’
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OH!!!! AND DIVORCE!!!
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When you are unmarried & childless there is an undeniable pressure to show off other accomplishments. Like your career has to be exceptional in order to justify “choosing it over” a relationship
I think relationships give ppl social credibility that single ppl have to establish individually. Being chosen is treated as evidence that you're desirable, stable, capable of commitment, etc. So ppl outsource their sense of adulthood to someone else's willingness to be with them
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“stop caring what other people think, you’re weak for that!” we are interconnected social creatures literally wired to care about belonging to a group. total individualism is a fantasy when other people’s respect or lack thereof can literally determine how your life goes.
When you are unmarried & childless there is an undeniable pressure to show off other accomplishments. Like your career has to be exceptional in order to justify “choosing it over” a relationship
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They also just do not consider women they don’t find attractive…like they forget they exist
Ludzie ( a faceci zwłaszcza) przez sociale mają bardzo wyprany obraz rzeczywistości przez co osoby przeciętne są uważane za skrajnie nieatrakcyjne, a osoby powiedzmy 7-8(trzymając się tej skali ocen) za przeciętne, a nawet lekko brzydkie.
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Wow this is EXACTLY how fat women get approached all the freaking time and a lot of those men have zero qualms about telling us exactly what they’re into about us (and fat women in general)
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If you honestly like fat ugly nerds you are probably going to have to find a way to communicate that that doesn’t sound like an insult
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Girls with apron bellies who wear string bikini bottoms I need you to be so honest with me…is there not…a gap? Because string bikini tops are a-ok but if I try to wear those bottoms I feel like I’m giving everyone um a WINDOW🫣
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Ok I’m gonna give all the suggestions a shot and post the results stay tuned
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Do you just not care if people see? Do you not swim in them? Do you only wear them for photos? Is my body just shaped especially weird? Lmk
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“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” OK BUT WHAT IF ALL THE BEHOLDERS THINK YOU’RE UGLY??? What then????
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Abby Rose Morris retweeted
Exercise is so fucking good when you aint got a bitch in your ear whining about weight loss and calories!!!!!
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you can also just not torture yourself with false constraints designed to make you hate yourself.
As a woman you have to choose between being skinny and looking good in clothes, or having a little extra fat and looking good naked
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I kind of wanna be catwoman now should I do it out of spite
PSA: Before yall buy them costumes remember cat woman was not 300 pounds
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I want to but the costume is $50 and I already have plans for another 😭
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