♡ ﾟmy diary #nenmie ┊͙ she/her
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According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them, they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night
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Stop being afraid of losing people. Love them well, show up sincerely and appreciate the time you share. But never forget that you're bringing something valuable to the table too. You deserve relationships where that value is recognised, not constantly questioned.
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The devil did, in fact, reach me. I spent years healing, and then he sent me a man who chased me, convinced me to give him a chance, love bombed the shit out of me, and discarded me on a random Tuesday like none of it ever meant anything.
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Qué forma tan cruel y cobarde de terminar una relación: no tener el valor de decir que ya no quieres continuar y, en su lugar, empezar a alejarte, mostrar indiferencia y enfriar el vínculo hasta que la otra persona se canse de luchar por algo que ya no estás dispuesto a cuidar.
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When a man truly loves you, He will fix his attitude, his tone, his habits, and anything that risks losing you. Not because you begged him to change, but because the thought of hurting you or watching you walk away matters more to him than his pride. Real love makes a man reflect on himself. It makes him think about how his words sound, how his actions affect you, and how he can do better. A man who truly loves you doesn't stay comfortable in behavior that causes you pain
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He made it clear. He doesn't want what you want. He's not emotionally available. His heart is closed off. He'd rather keep you close so he has someone to fall back on when he gets bored. He doesn’t communicate with you or show up for you in the ways you deserve. Yet you keep chasing after him, believing that if he finally chooses you, it will somehow heal your heart and give you the worth you've been seeking. But the truth is, you were never the one lacking, you just forgot your own value.
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Do I only exist when someone is bored or needs something???? nitter.cf/stilmej/status/2114029…
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ÉL SABÍA LO QUE HACÍA. Sabía que estaba mal, sabía cuánto te iba a doler, sabía que podía destruir lo que habían construido y que sus acciones podían romperte por dentro. NO LO JUSTIFIQUES. Él sabía perfectamente lo que estaba haciendo y, aun así, lo hizo.
