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So, surely with hardship comes ease β€’ 27 β€’ mdnf β€’ vegetarian β€’ an-r & arfid β€’ disabled β€’ HAES β€’ 5’0.6 / 154cm β€’ genderfluid roseusboy β€’ aroace sapphic

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Joined July 2021
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~unpinning when i reach 40kg/88lbs~
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…i need to know if this is legit
Waited 4+ years for strap that the wearer can feel. Stroking the shaft sends signals to a vibrator inside the wearer. It finally came! And soon so am I!!!!
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guys pls genuinely what do i do 😭😭😭
what do i do if even at bmi 17 my boobs ruin my clothes & make all my outfits look weird
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i could try KT tape but i’m a dumbass & didn’t think about the fact that it might require pasties or some sort of nipple cover so i gotta buy those now too …could i just idk stick a piece of toilet paper or tissue over it before putting on the tape ?
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
It’s important to me that everyone knows that the reason the sexualization of nuns is a problem is because it’s a misogynistic abuse of power over women who choose to regain celibate and modest and not because they’re christian
The trope of gay priests is as disrespectful as sexualizing nuns btw
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
you’re fully welcome to make the decision that SSRIs/SNRIs are not for you. you don’t have to take them. you cannot speak for/over the people who do benefit from taking a certain medication, dumbass
i think ssris and snris should only be given to people for at most a year and they should be prescribed therapy cuz like. these meds fuck your brain up and long term use just seems like keeping dirty gauze on a wound that needs stitches
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
I think it’s healthier when starting out to go β€œI might have a complex dissociative disorder” instead of β€œI might be a system” if you’re looking to understand yourself more accurately beyond just β€œmultiple people disorder.”
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
What’s a polite way to tell someone, β€œI’m not discussing this with you because your entire understanding of the subject is built on so many interconnected misconceptions that correcting them would require uninstalling your current worldview and starting the tutorial from birth”?
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it’s so funny (/neg) how ppl are assuming i’m defending my own actions when ive literally only ever been on the OTHER side of that situation
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& they’d probably ridicule my reaction too lmao fucking hypocrites
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
Replying to @neocollector
"see page 2" the fuck??
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can twt pls stop giving my tweets attention why
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bro my brain fucking said school
My psychiatrist asked me this during my ADHD evaluation: "If I said the words 'apple' and 'chair' β€” what do they have in common?" Most people answer immediately. ADHD brains answer differently. Drop your answer. I'll tell you what the test was actually looking for.,::.οΏΌ 1//4
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
no naci para ser amada ni para ser elegida ni para estudiar ni para trabajar ni para estar bien ni para ser linda ni para tener amigos ni para ser buena en algo, no naci para vivir
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
nao lembro de anos inteiros da minha vida
dissociei tanto que genuinamente nΓ£o lembro de certos meses da minha vida
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no actually my brain has permanent physical damage & scarring on top of global cell death my brain doesn’t make or release the right amount of neurotransmitters i will likely need to be on an SSRI + NDRI for my entire life
long term ssri therapy(3+ years) is linked to emotional blunting, and theres evidence for it having cognitive impairments, bone density issues, and apparently bleeding? if these meds help you, take them, but please do not think that theyre a cure. you dont use a crutch forever
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like have we considered that the ppl having ill effects simply were prescribed an SSRI while having fine serotonin levels & THATS what caused the issue ? or that it’s certain compounds in some medications that only some ppl react negatively to ??
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
🧡thread of free online DBT material for those suffering with BPD and cannot afford specialized therapy:
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
All cis people are privileged because of their gender All white people are privileged because of their race A white trans persons oppression due to their gender exists regardless of their race A black cis person's oppression due to their race exists regardless of their gender
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πŸ’œ vespera πŸ’œ β˜Ώβ™‚β™€ retweeted
Twitter sees one spiral get posted and goes from advocating for mental health to r/bpdlovedones in real time
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so if i straight up told my mom she’s half the reason im st@rvlng myself & it’s her fault that would be manipulative in a super bad way…?
ok but genuinely how is telling someone you’re going to commit or harm yourseIf if you don’t get support in some form manipulative if it’s true…
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is it manipulative if i don’t tell her ??? does it change in acceptability or morality if im doing it out of spite/hate ? does it change if shes denied me needing help for decades ? does it change if some of it includes physical illness & disability ?
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idk i’m sorry i genuinely don’t see much difference in the cases of actually trying to get an emotional reaction just because it’s different methods ? obv this is not smth you do to a friend you want to keep but i mean from what ppl are explaining as generally manipulative & bad
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