Sometimes, the person everyone is dragging is the person we should all be learning from. Learn from Blessing CEO, not just drag her. There was a time she was extremely influential, especially among women. She knew how to command attention and turn controversy into virality. But in the IVD and late Bimbo Ogbonna saga, many people felt she went too far. It was a sensitive situation involving a woman who was no longer alive to tell her own side of the story. Whatever anyone believed about that situation, using another person’s pain, death or family crisis to gain attention should always make us pause. Years later, the same internet that once celebrated and amplified her can be extremely cold. Today, she is facing serious legal and public controversies, and many of the people who once stood closely beside her are no longer there. That is the part worth studying, not because anyone deserves misfortune, but because life can change your position very quickly. You may be the one speaking today, and tomorrow, you may become the story everyone is discussing. The people applauding you today may not be there when things fall apart. Followers are not always friends, virality is not always influence, and attention is not the same as respect. So be careful with people. Be careful with the dead, with people’s families, with their pain and with stories you do not fully understand. Do not turn someone else’s worst moment into your best content simply because it will give you engagement. The internet moves fast, but your character follows you everywhere. Learn from Blessing CEO. Don’t just drag her. Don’t celebrate her difficult season. Take the lesson, build influence with wisdom, choose compassion over clout, and remember that one day, you may be the person the internet is talking about.