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A married man is angry with his wife and wants to make a decision. Three years ago, he was in a financial mess and in debt due to some failed business deals. He had to sell their only car to pay off some of the debt. When his brothers-in-law got to know about his ordeals, they were not happy with the situation. So they rallied to support him and bought another car for him. He decided to set aside the business and started driving for Bolt/Uber with the car. Through it, he was able to clear his debt and continued providing for his family. They have two children. Last Sunday, he was having a quarrel with his wife over an undisclosed issue. Then he said, "I am the head of this home. I am grateful to God that I have good in-laws too, but I will not watch you disrespect me. I provide for you and the children the best I can." Then his wife responded in a very rude way: "Who would you have become if not for my brothers? Don't you also have brothers? What did they do for you?" He said that he felt so cold after hearing what his wife said to him and that he now feels sudden hatred toward her. He doesn't want to report her to her brothers, but he is no longer seeing his wife the same way. He said that he cried that Sunday night because after she said that, he just left the house for a bar, where he cried in silence. What is still painful to him is that his wife has still not apologized for what she said, and is going about her business like she did nothing. He wants to quietly walk away from the marriage and go start his life somewhere else. He will leave the car with her and abandon them to their fate. He doesn't feel the need to keep pushing for his family anymore because his wife has killed the man in him. What would you advise him to do? AJD.

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WHY A MAN MUST LOOK AT HIS FIANCÉE'S MOTHER BEFORE HE CHOOSES A WIFE: Young man, Before you marry a woman, don't just study her beauty. Study her mother. There is a reason our fathers paid attention to the women in a family long before they approved a marriage. Experience taught them what romance could not. Many people think marriage is the union of two individuals. It is not. Marriage is the meeting point of values, habits, beliefs, temperaments, and family cultures. You are not only marrying a woman. You are marrying the environment that shaped her. Now, I am not saying every daughter becomes her mother. No. But every daughter carries traces of the woman who raised her. Some traces are visible immediately. Others emerge years into marriage. Observe how her mother speaks to her husband. Observe how she handles disagreements. Observe how she responds to stress. Observe her attitude toward respect, responsibility, and accountability. Because when life becomes difficult, people often return to what they learned at home. A beautiful face can hide an unhealthy family culture. Many men investigate a woman's past but never investigate the home that produced her. That is like inspecting a fruit while ignoring the tree. The tree matters. When you visit her family, don't focus on how they treat guests. Anybody can perform for visitors. Pay attention to what happens when everyone becomes comfortable. That is where truth lives. Watch the women she admires. Watch the women she imitates. Watch the women she constantly defends. People naturally move toward the examples they celebrate. Look at her mother's relationship with accountability. Some people are never wrong. Nothing is ever their fault. Everyone else becomes the problem. A child raised in such an environment may unconsciously adopt the same habits. Observe her mother's attitude toward money. Some families see money as a tool to build. Others see it as a weapon to control. Marriage eventually reveals which culture a person comes from. Another thing. Watch how her mother treats people beneath her social status. The waiter. The cleaner. The security guard. The struggling relative. Character is often hidden from equals but exposed toward subordinates. A wise man doesn't only ask: "Do I love her?" He also asks: "What kind of environment produced her thinking?" Because love can make a man blind. Marriage has a way of restoring sight. The purpose of studying her mother is not to judge or condemn. It is to understand. You are looking for patterns. You are looking for strengths, weaknesses, values, and family culture. Because every family passes something down. Some pass down wisdom. Some pass down discipline. Some pass down loyalty. Some pass down emotional stability. Some pass down chaos. The inheritance is not always financial. And before anyone gets offended, the same principle applies in reverse. A woman should also study the father of the man she intends to get married to. Many sons eventually reveal the lessons they absorbed from the men they watched growing up. Marriage is not won by finding a perfect spouse. There are none. Marriage is won by understanding the patterns attached to the person you choose. A blind man marries an individual. A wise man studies the lineage. So before you choose a wife, don't only ask about beauty, education, or compatibility. Ask yourself: "What kind of woman raised this woman?" That single question has saved many people from years of regret. The elders understood something this generation often forgets: Courtship reveals the person. Family reveals the future. End.

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