AlisaH

Prefacing this post to say that this is not meant towards anyone in particular. If you know someone who can benefit from this, please feel free to pass it on. I’m not challenging anyone, calling anyone a scammer or liar or grifter. This is just free, unsolicited advice from someone who got sick of the crap. Story time: Once upon a time, on this very app, an internet stranger said he was going to spill information about me. Because I knew I had nothing to hide, I said prove it. And you know what happened? NOTHING. Because there was no info to spill. The end. Literally. The lesson: if someone is saying they know something and you know they don’t, challenge them. If they don’t produce, you win and it ends. If you’re too defensive, it fuels the fires of gossip, and quite often it’s not in your favor. If you find yourself in a situation like this, confront directly.

I’m helping my mom reorganize her home, so storage and updated items for her kitchen and living room would be a huge help. She’s giving my son and I a place to stay while we work on some major transitions in our lives, and I want her to do things for her to show her how grateful I am. #BedBathandBeyondisBack