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✈️ Blasia
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A non-sexual turn on for me is someone who is an intellectual-sparring partner. Someone you can debate with. Someone you can bounce ideas off of.
That shit is real erotic to me
My to do lists for the next several months is overwhelmingly long i just have too much on my plate
Esther Perel makes an important distinction: “Am I happy?” vs. “Could I be happier somewhere else?”
At some point, we have to question whether we’re pursuing something better or simply becoming incapable of recognizing what’s good…..
I listened to a podcast called reimagining acceptance.
Resignation is passive. Acceptance is active. One withdraws, the other creates room for presence, flexibility, and intentional change.
Relational dialectics is the tension between stability and change in relationships. The changer seeks growth, while the acceptor values what already exists. Neither is wrong, but we often mistake what once kept us safe for what we actually need.
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Thinking bout putting a 15hp kicker motor on my boat for trolling. These are from my last fishing trip w/my dad and unc.
Some Kings and Coho salmon
You have to keep the tension between play and predictability, risk and safety, mystery and familiarity, novelty and the enduring. To feel secure, yet remain curious enough to never believe there is nothing left to discover. Desire lives in that gap
I love an enduring, capacious love. One that holds the mundane, the predictable, and the disenchanting. One that remains when life is touched by grief.
To still yearn for what I already have. To know life’s brevity, our mortality, and face the enormity of loss together
I believe that relationships are asymptote, the bittersweetness that intimacy is a pursuit, not a destination. The mystery of the other remains intact, there will always be a sliver of distance between what we long for and what we live. The gap holds space for curiosity, awe,
the discovery has ended. Closeness and fulfillment exist in tension, even when you think you’ve “figured out” your partner, life interrupts, grief/time reshapes them.
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I believe that relationships are asymptote, the bittersweetness that intimacy is a pursuit, not a destination. The mystery of the other remains intact, there will always be a sliver of distance between what we long for and what we live. The gap holds space for curiosity, awe,