If a girl fucks you on the first date, she is NOT serious long-term material
It’s very simple:
Wholesome LTR-material girls are wholesome BECAUSE they don’t fuck on the first date
They have standards
They were raised well
The idea of fucking a guy she JUST MET 2 HOURS AGO is inconceivable to her
However -
a girl who DOES fuck on the first date quickly gets used, abused, and traumatized
She loses her feminine grace. She becomes experienced and jaded, sometimes in a matter of WEEKS
& "experience" is a death sentence for women
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Now let me ask you:
With a serious LTR, you’re going to potentially spend the rest of your life with this woman…
Can you fully trust her if she previously fucked guys within HOURS?
Will she be 100% loyal to you for DECADES if that's her character?
You might say:
"But she's changed, she's not like that anymore!"
Brother
PEOPLE DON'T CHANGE
They add layers... They put on masks... They bury their demons...
But they don't CHANGE
Believing they do is the main cause of heartbreak
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If a girl fucks YOU within hours, she'll do it with someone else too
She's showing you her character
She's showing you who she is
PAY ATTENTION
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I’ll happily fuck a woman on the first date. I almost always try. But if she lets me, I’d never wife her
Would you?
Above all else, women look for STRENGTH in men
She wants to feel like you can kick the teeth out of the drunk guy harassing her on the street. Like you can throw her ex bf out a window. Like you can keep her safe
She doesn't care if you're short. She cares if you're STRONG
4 dating app profile fixes you can do RIGHT NOW to get more matches:
1.
Cut away dead weight
Most guys' profiles simply have TOO MUCH. Cut down your bio, prompts, and details
Bio should be under 10 words, prompts under 5
Less is more
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2.
Add a sex appeal photo
Girls swipe right on HOT guys
If you have a lean physique, SHOW IT OFF
A good shirtless photo will 10x your matches overnight
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3.
Remove photos that show weaknesses
-receding hairline
-overweight
-short
-bad teeth
These things will make lots of girls automatically swipe left
Work on improving whatever you can, but in the meantime conceal these things
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4.
Don't say you're looking for a "life partner" or only "short term fun"
Both of these are TOO MUCH TOO SOON and will filter most girls out
"Long term, open to short"
or
"Short term, open to long"
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Do these and you'll immediately see better results
-less is more
-look HOT
-don't look needy
-don't spill your guts
Be casual, calm, and COOL
I show you exactly how to build a killer profile that GETS MATCHES in The Complete Dating App Profile Guide
It's a comprehensive guide that includes:
-self-photography guide
-my own profile in full
-exactly what TO do and what NOT to do
Get it here:
profileguide.theswipehound.c…
Why you should bang sluts:
All red-blooded men love sluts
They’re hot, they’re fun, and they give you a hell of a story
But more importantly -
They are the clearest reflection of your value in the sexual marketplace. A brutally accurate litmus test of your masculinity
(I’ll tell you why in a minute)
But a lot of guys will say “Anyone can bang sluts bro, it’s easy”
Ok
Let me ask you:
When was the last time YOU banged a slut?
& I’m not talking about some 3/10 ogre from Feeld or that skinny chick at work with a missing tooth who fucks everyone and probably does m*th
Those aren’t “sluts”
I’m talking about a TRUE slut:
-hot
-flirty
-rambunctious
-confident
-BOLD
She oozes sex appeal. She makes heads turn everywhere she goes. You get nervous being in public with her
A true slut is a girl who KNOWS she’s hot, KNOWS all men want her, and HAS known it for years
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The truth about sluts is:
They are NOT “easy”
You never see fat slobs or skinny nerds with sluts
NEVER
You only see masculine, strong, BALLSY guys with sluts, because they are the only guys who can GET sluts
-gangsters
-CEOs
-pro athletes
-A-list actors
-dgaf surfer boys
-social alphas
-violent men
If you were a STRONG, BRASH, BALLSY motherfucker you’d be able to bang sluts too
But men who CAN’T bang sluts just sit back and talk shit about them instead, call them “whores” and say “I don’t want her anyway…”
This is cope, plain and simple
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Look, if you’re married or in a serious relationship, of course you shouldn’t go bang sluts to “prove your masculinity”
That’s stupid
But don’t lie to me and say you don’t WANT TO
Don’t lie to me and say you don’t WISH YOU COULD
& if you’re a young single guy and you’ve never banged a white-hot slut, it’s not because you “don’t want to”…
It’s because you CAN’T.
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The foundation of all humanity is SEX, and sluts are the biggest gatekeepers of sex
They only give it to the most worthy men
If you want to know where you stand as a man, look at the quality of women you’re able to successfully attract
This tells you everything
Women are the ultimate mirror of your own masculinity
& sluts in particular only respond to
STRENGTH
and
BOLDNESS
They only give themselves to men who are MAN enough to TAKE THEM
Meek men get trampled by the primal volcanic power of sluts’ sex appeal
Only the STRONG can bang sluts.
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Now look…
It’s not about “banging lots of sluts”
Obviously that’s not what life is all about. This isn’t a call to hedonism
It’s about KNOWING YOU CAN
Not:
-thinking you can
-saying “well I COULD if I wanted to”
-telling yourself you’re the man because you bagged a drunk 6/10 from the club 4 years ago
It’s about KNOWING
DEEP DOWN
in your MARROW
from EXPERIENCE
that you CAN.
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Now you might say,
“I don’t need to bang sluts to feel secure in my manhood!”
I won’t disagree with you. I don’t know anything about you. I’ll simply ask one final question for you to chew on:
Are you sure?
Some nuance:
-don’t fall in love with a slut
-don’t marry a slut
-obviously your ability to attract the hottest, most sexual women isn’t the ONLY gauge of your masculinity. It is, however, a MAJOR one that cannot be neglected
-this all depends on your definition of “slut.” Mine is favorable - I only consider a woman a slut if she’s VERY sexually attractive, ie hot as fuck
-if you want to bang lots of sluts, go for it. It’s fun. If you just want to do it once or twice to prove to yourself you can, even better. But make DAMN SURE you’ve erased all doubt in your mind about your own ability, or it WILL come back to haunt you throughout your life
-sluts are a great equalizer of men. Powerful force of nature
-don’t expect sluts to be something they aren’t. They’re SLUTS
How to boost your raw sex appeal:
-thin chain necklace
-brown leather boots
-talk slow
-shaggy hair
-tight sharp beard (stubble if good chin/jaw)
-cigarette
-tattoos (black only)
-wide posture
-scars showing
-leather jacket (if you can pull it off)
-smirk, don’t smile
-dark colored clothes
-muscle car
-whiten teeth
-use cash
-leather bracelets
-rough callused hands
-tan
-overtip
-strong eye contact
-designer sunglasses
Women are only attracted to men they perceive as BETTER than them
-bigger
-stronger
-hotter
-smarter
-richer
-crazier
-funnier
-higher status
-more dominant
-more dangerous
This makes her look up to you & feel secure
If she perceives you as below her, you’re invisible
You must be SUPERIOR in every way
(Should be easy)
If you aren't getting matches on Tinder, here's why:
(Especially if you ARE getting matches on Hinge)
First, understand the core differences between these apps
TINDER:
-highest-volume
-most users (3x more than Hinge)
-lowest attention span
-most chaotic
-extremely variable quality
Tinder is the OG dating app
It's like walking downtown Manhattan - all different types of people swarming around you with no patience or chill
HINGE:
-lower volume (purposely bottlenecked)
-higher average quality
-slower pace
-no "swipe" feature
-female-oriented
Hinge is the defacto "agenda mode" app, openly positioned for girls who are sick of "games" and want something "serious."
It's right in Hinge's slogan - "Designed to be deleted"
It's like going to a singles event - everyone is there for a REASON, and it's not to have fun...
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So the first major factor is that the two apps have VERY different girls (and guys) who use them:
TINDER:
-anyone and everyone
-curious girls who've never used a dating app
-foreign girls (Hinge is only big in the US/UK)
-horny girls
-sluts
-trolls
-young hot girls who just want to have fun
HINGE:
-girls who've been burned on Tinder
-girls who've heard "Hinge is better"
-marriage seekers
-golddiggers
-girls who are "too good" for other apps
-girls with an AGENDA
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So
With that in mind, it becomes obvious why so many guys get more matches on Hinge than Tinder, despite Tinder having more girls:
>>Your profile appeals to AGENDA MODE girls, not FUN girls.
Look
I've reviewed a LOT of dating app profiles
The main overarching problem I see on almost all of them is that they are "nice" profiles that lack SEX APPEAL.
Most guys:
-pick their best photos
-smile
-talk about all their accomplishments
-try to look "good"
Their profiles would crush on LinkedIn or Facebook but TINDER IS NOT FACEBOOK
You don't want to look "good" on a dating app. You want to look HOT
You know what looking "good" gets you?
Agenda-mode chicks ready to settle down 😁
If you want the young, hot, fun girls (who are all on Tinder), your profile needs sex appeal
YOU need to look HOT
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Lastly
Tinder has a MUCH lower attention span than Hinge
Girls swipe rapidly, usually swiping left on your first picture before they even see the rest
(Hinge is slower and more forgiving)
So on Tinder, it's essential to STAND OUT and grab attention immediately
Your first picture on your profile is by far the most important
It has to be KILLER
It has to stop her dead in her tracks and make her say,
"Woah... He looks HOT"
Basically -
On Hinge, you can still get a few low-quality matches with a weaker profile
On Tinder, you need to be KILLER
There are also more MEN on Tinder. You have more competition...
But most of them are losers with zero game. It's EASY to stand out
Once you dial in your Tinder profile, you'll get:
-more matches
-better matches
-hotter girls
-less "what are you looking for?"
-more FUN
Tinder is all or nothing
You have to fight your way through the chaos, but once you do, you get all the best girls.
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SUMMARY:
1. Tinder is for fun young girls
2. Hinge is for agenda-mode girls
3. Most guys' profiles are geared toward agenda-mode girls, NOT fun young girls
4. You struggle on Tinder because your profile lacks SEX APPEAL
5. Tinder has the best girls and the most competition, so you need to be KILLER to win
6. Tinder is all-or-nothing, but Hinge still gives some scraps to the mediocre
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All the highest-quality girls I've pulled have been on Tinder
-virgins
-sweet foreign girls
-wholesome girls
-hot college girls
-DTF sluts
I'm not trying to trash Hinge—I've met good girls on Hinge too
But they almost always take longer to sleep with and have more trauma
For pure high-volume fun & baddies, Tinder is still king 👑
Replying to @swipehound
King, how does one explain that I'm getting plenty of matches on hinge but not shit on tinder
I show exactly how to build a killer profile in The Complete Dating App Profile Guide
It includes:
-self-photography guide
-my own profile in full
-exactly what TO do and what NOT to do
Get it here:
profileguide.theswipehound.c…
If she cheats on you, leave
If she disrespects you, leave
If she stops fucking you, LEAVE
This is the only real solution
As a man, you get what you can TAKE
Today
a lot of Gen Z herbs are getting mad at me from my recent tweets because I’m “corrupting the wholesome girls”
They say,
“Why can’t you leave the wholesome girls for the wholesome guys?”
LOSER attitude
What this really means is that I’m stealing their girls and they’re powerless
Begging for crumbs 😁
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Listen
If I can bang sluts, they’re mine
If I can seduce virgins, they’re mine
LISTEN
If you can’t TAKE a wholesome girl for yourself, YOU DON’T DESERVE ONE
You are not ENTITLED to a wholesome girl, and men like me who CAN take them are not going to “leave them for you” 🤣🤣
Sack up
Become a better man
And go TAKE what you want
Otherwise better men will
Of all the dating apps, Tinder has the highest-quality most wholesome girls
& for a very simple reason:
Tinder is the OG dating app
The "it" app
If you take a hundred girls from the street and ask them what dating apps they know, most of them will start with "Tinder"
This is important because dating apps are inherently damaging to girls
Girls go on dating apps for the first time, innocent, and very quickly become jaded and traumatized
(Nature of the beast)
So
The ABSOLUTE BEST girls I've pulled from dating apps all had one thing in common:
>THEY WERE BRAND NEW TO THE APPS
I got in early, before the apps chewed them up and spit them out
Now
where do most innocent girls start when they think "I want a man, I'm going to try a dating app"?
That's right -
They start with Tinder
because it's the one they've heard the most about and by far the most popular.
It sounds CRAZY until you've experienced it over and over again like I have
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On the flip side, Tinder also has the most insane deranged hellsluts known to man
It has the most of EVERYTHING
-most users
-most activity
-most chaos
It's a warzone
But you're more likely to meet your blushing warbride from Tinder than from Hinge (the agenda-mode app)
You're also more likely to meet your pyshco ex who burns down your apartment 😁
If you're a MAN who thrives in chaos, who doesn't mind a little risk...
Tinder is #1
How to get high-quality wholesome girls:
A lot of you want serious LTRs
It's a great goal. Some of the best times of my life (and the best sex) were when I was in an LTR
Here's how:
FIRST
Go for younger girls (18-22)
This is the best possible filter for high-quality girls
The fact is - the older a girl gets, the more "experience" she accumulates
Experience is universally bad for girls
Experience = trauma
Every ex-bf = trauma
Every dick = TRAUMA
Wholesome girls are LESS experienced and MORE innocent
Are there older girls who are still wholesome? Of course. But they are the exception, not the rule
Like it or not, this is simply the truth
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SECOND
Adapt your style to the type of girl you're talking to
Most of the "game" advice on here is geared toward fucking slutty girls
With slutty girls you:
-move at breakneck speed
-cockymaxx
-close hard
But you CAN'T DO THIS with wholesome girls. You'll send them running
(They're more innocent & don't sleep around)
You need to move a bit slower. Be more patient and gentle
Move forward with masculine intent, but reign in your aggression
Wholesome girls don't fuck on the first date. If they did, THEY WOULDN'T BE WHOLESOME!
All the best girls I've had LTRs with took AT LEAST 3-4 dates to have sex (often more)
Play the long game
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THIRD
Turn down your "bad boy" dial, turn up your "good guy" dial
The bad boy traits that are attractive to women are attractive to ALL women:
-sex appeal
-confidence
-other options
-dgaf energy
HOWEVER
You need to turn DOWN the dial on those traits for wholesome girls
Not all the way down—you still need to keep your masculine edge—but down enough that she doesn't think you're just a player and nothing more
Turn UP the dial on:
-stability
-availability
-emotional connection
-patience
She is still attracted to bad boy traits, but she doesn't want a bad boy
She wants a GOOD MAN with an edge
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Also -
As with all things, you attract what you are
If you're a loser with no job or purpose or ambition, why would a high-quality wholesome girl want to be with you?
Look to yourself first.
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Never listen to the doomers
There are still LOTS of beautiful, feminine, wholesome girls out there
(I put an example in the replies below)
It's up to YOU to find them, and to be the type of man they're looking for
Godspeed 💪🏼
As with all my public reviews, this guy posted his profile on Reddit asking for advice
If you want me to look at your profile privately, I do paid profile reviews (check my bio).
For my profile guide that shows you how to build a killer profile:
profileguide.theswipehound.c…
Dating App Profile Review #19
Blind Spots
We all have blind spots about ourselves - things everyone else can spot a mile away but we simply don’t see
It’s human nature
I’m not here to judge anyone’s personal choices or talk shit
I don’t care. Do whatever you want
BUT
If you ask why you’re not getting matches on dating apps, I’ll tell you
















