@theojframe
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I write about Relationships, Frame and Social Dynamics.
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Joined December 2017
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Most men lose women for one reason.
They lose themselves first.
Frame is not confidence or money.
Frame is sovereignty.
I write about power, attraction, and social dynamics without moral fluff.
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The only way to keep her attracted to you is to always remain Jack.
The moment you become Joe.
She loses attraction and she’s right to do so.
Why?
Because you were a fake.
Game is your set of social and interpersonal skills.
It is how you express yourself.
Alignment is the mutual attraction and shared intentions between you and the girl.
Logistics is the set of practical conditions. Think availability, timing, privacy…etc
OJ retweeted
Being "platonic" with women has a lot of benefits:
- You improve your social skills by talking to a lot of people, including women
- At the highest level of the game, you're FORCED to do this anyway. You have to learn how to speak with the women of your friends, or business partners, or you have female employees working for your companies. Or you go out to different spots throughout the world and it's better to be perceived as likeable rather than weird, shy
- You can become friends with the girls you had sex with, it's better to friend zone them rather than being mean or completely ignoring them
- Sometimes you're friends with women and they end up falling in love with you, even though you didn't initiate nothing first. I was friends with a girl for 1.5 years then she started hitting on me, I fucked her and we stayed together for a few years ))))
- If you're friendly and sociable the girls you won't fuck can introduce you to their friends which might like you
Being friendly is overall a very useful trait to have in your arsenal.
Game is a skill issue.
Flirting is an alignment issue.
Attraction is an alignment + skill issue.
Sex is a skill + alignment + logistics issue.
You are disturbing her bro.
That’s the problem.
Applying game to the wrong girl is anti-game.
Leave her for the dude she wants.
You are clearly not her definition of “HIM”.
There is this babe I have been disturbing on my estate for the past three weeks, and she has been forming difficulty in submission.
I saw her just now trekking with a guy with no car, obviously her boyfriend. And here I am, with the whole steeze of Wizkid and the rizz of Burna, yet she keeps declining my proposal.
What do women really want? 😭😭😭
OJ retweeted
She is not actually rejecting YOU.
And it's a loss for no one
But still a loss for her as well.
@theojframe said "she rejects what you offer"
This is true.
Could it be the presentation? Maybe
And if your offer turned out better than she expected, whose loss?
Exactly.
A decade ago, I cold approached a girl with the worst opener imaginable:
“Hi, my name is OJ.”
She said:
“My name is Michelle.”
That was literally the game.
My game was shit.
We still became a thing.
Sometimes you don’t need better game.
You just need the right person.
Your first mistake was probably taking her seriously.
Second: believing her words over her actions.
Third: ignoring the red flags because you wanted her to be different.
Look.
The mistake isn’t loving her.
The mistake is abandoning your judgment.
Men are salesmen.
Women are marketers.
But most guys are too naive and lack the capacity for nuanced thinking to be able to identify this distinction.
In a committed relationship, a man should stop pitching.
And a woman should stop advertising.
Fair proposition.
- LDG
La estrategia reproductiva que usaron las mujeres para sobrevivir-reproducrise durante cientos de miles de años fue mostrarse.
El hombre seduce activamente (te habla, te busca, te likea, se acerca, te habla) cumple el rol activo.
La mujer seduce pasivamente (se muestra)
Eso explica por que a las mujeres les gusta tanto salir al exterior, a boliches, de noche, a bares, por que ahi se puede mostrar.
Y ni hablar de usar redes sociales, fue la mayor droga que le dieron, tienen toda la atención desde su casa sin necesidad de salir.
Por eso cuando las minas suben fotos y te dicen que "no tiene nada malo" te esta psicopateando y vos como hombre domado le das la razon.
Que una mina suba una foto a sus redes sociales donde la ven hombres, es equivalente a que vos como hombre le hables a una chica.
Ambos estarían cumpliedno su rol en la seducción, ella siendo pasiva y vos siendo activo.
No te dejes psicopatear.
Remember this dude on campus.
Parks his Benz in the middle of the road.
Jumps out, leaves the door open, runs over to talk to a girl.
I take one look at their body language.
He’s trying too hard.
She’s not interested.
The Benz was loud.
The body language was louder.
OJ retweeted
I have started ignoring girls who dont ask questions back in messages and and it has made my life a lot better
My gee called me this evening.
Tells me he’s already on this girl’s case.
Things are going smoothly.
They are talking pretty well.
Bro is probably just checking if I am salty about her.
Male Shit test here.
Remember when a girl in my estate cold approached me.
I was like, “who the fuck are you”.
She was really close.
She said she knows me.
In my mind, “I have never met you in my life”.
Now you know how girls feel about cold approach.
Dude asks me,
“How do I get over her?”
The most common advice will be,
“Find someone else”.
My best advice ?
“Figure out why you are still attached to her.
When you do, don’t kill the attachment.
Just stop feeding it”