𝕄𝔽𝔽𝕊𝕠𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕖𝕚𝕘𝕟ℙ𝕒𝕥𝕙 𝕊𝕚𝕟𝕔𝕖 2017

i see so many stories about subs who just suddenly block their Domme or deactivate out of the blue with no warning, or otherwise ghost Her without a word. And my question to those subs is... how?? How can you do that to Her? Is your level of awareness so low, that you genuinely do not understand how much that actually hurts Her when She has put a lot of emotional energy into the dynamic? Or do you simply not care? Do you truly not understand that She has feelings just like every other human being out there? Is it so hard for you to just talk to Her about your feelings, that you would rather wound Her instead of just talk to Her? And then you wonder why so many Dommes can seem so cold and uncaring? From the stories i have heard and seen, i think it's a miracle that there are still Dommes who still care deeply. The Dommes who still care, after having been hurt and disappointed that many times, are truly displaying a rare kind of strength. i am so grateful that my Goddess is who She is. But so many of you subs give every Domme out there reasons to be anything but caring. No, just because She is a Domme does not mean She is immune to being hurt. If She cares about the dynamic in any way, then you ghosting Her will hurt Her. Because when someone cares, they become vulnerable to being hurt. That's unfortunately how it is with caring. Caring requires vulnerability. So unless you want a Domme that is entirely indifferent about Her dynamics, then you are going to treat Her feelings and emotions as something deeply sacred. Something you will make damn sure to never ever wound in any way. When you ghost, block, or abruptly leave your Domme, you are not making a mistake; you are making a choice. A choice to hurt Her, cause you're too much of a coward to just communicate your feelings to Her. Everyone makes mistakes, unfortunately. It's part of being human. But ghosting is not a mistake. It's a choice. You're not stumbling when you do it. You're not taking a misstep. You are choosing to hurt and wound your Domme with your actions. It is a conscious choice. There is no excuse for it. Life can happen. But do you know what you do when life happens? You C O M M U N I C A T E it. Communicate, don't ghost. Don't be an immature and irresponsible brat. Act like an adult. i can't even hypothetically put myself into the headspace of ghosting my Goddess. To hurt Her like that. Knowing how it would affect Her. The very idea of it makes my stomach turn. Like, i genuinely do not understand how subs who do this actually live with themselves. There's so much immaturity in this space, and we really need to do better. As a sub, i am so disappointed with the behaviour that a lot of subs are displaying. How they treat their Dommes like toys to play with and discard them the moment they get bored. Treating your Domme as a human being is a minimum standard. But really, you should be treating Her as a deity, as an embodiment of the divine feminine, as a Goddess. Do better. Be better.