
Read, watch, and listen to content by @JeffPerera on helpful vs harmful ideas of manhood | #LadderOfManhood #MenBuildingEmotionalMuscle #BehindTheMasc
Toronto, Canada
Joined February 2012
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Bring @jeffperera out for a talk or discussion on manhood, empathy, taking action, and building community with your community, organization, campus, or space! higherunlearning.com/book-je…
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Hate is the punchline. Shane Gillis is just another boring hack comic who smuggles misogyny inside bad jokes. The shit isn't funny.
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Women don’t need us to be saviours, they need us to step up and help.
They have had our backs, it’s time we have theirs.
Thankful for women and gender-expansive ppl who have been doing the work, and for the men who are joining in.
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2) The 2025 Toronto @BlueJays as a team modelling the power of men’s friendship both on and off the field. A great example of how we can support each other as men, and learn to win together and navigate defeat together. #BlueJays
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1) For Blue Jays fans, one year ago today marks one of the most devastating losses in sports history. While it’s ‘just sports’ the bewildering grief was just as real. #BlueJays
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Thoughts on how men must learn to build and earn trust, amidst a great Trust Famine across society.
Building bridges between us can start with building bridges within us as guys.
Thinking a lot about men and moral courage these days.
Here’s a link to a few short videos I made speaking about it:
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RFK Jr. is bringing back diseases they didn't have in Little House on the Prairie
Health officials warn residents about rabbit fever, a rare tick-borne illness, after three cases were reported on Long Island. nbcnews.com/news/us-news/rab…
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Let's talk about doing the 'correct thing' versus doing the right thing. #WorldCup With a shoutout to #TrevorNoah
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I’m Kid Rock.”
“I’m Naomi Wolf.”
“I’m Kanye West.”
“I’m Matt Taibbi.”
“I’m Catturd. Those stories, plus Rob Schneider, tonight on 60 Minutes.”
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MASCULINITY IS ALL ABOUT THOSE C’S!
Let’s talk about the C’s of Masculinity! Consensual is a big one, and I talk a lot about Courage, Curiosity and Commitment, but here’s some other C’s words. Which other words can you think of?
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Shout out to Victor Wembanyama!
#Wemby modelled a helpful example of manhood both on and court the court. #greenscreen #NBA #courage #emotional
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Things are a mess for people of all genders, especially for women and gender-expansive people. Let's talk about how to get out of the mess we are in as men.
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Men and young men today are struggling to find ways forward in everyday moments. Here is something I use to help me navigate Life’s daily ups and downs: The Inner Compass for Men.
#DrawingMapsToManhood @HigherUnlearnin #masculinity
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Anger channeled in a harmful way
builds walls and breaks down bridges.
Anger channeled in a healthy way
breaks down walls and builds bridges.
#DrawingMapsToManhood #LadderOfManhood @HigherUnlearnin
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Break the chain of harmful ideas of manhood. #MapsToManhood @HigherUnlearnin
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Being a ‘good man’ isn’t good enough. It’s time to get the fuck up, men. We must do better, we owe women, young women, girls, and gender-expansive people. #CNN #EndVAW #BetterMan
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The Impossible Dilemma. The everyday situations we put women and nonbinary folks in as men. Which Men are the Good Men?
Don’t like that question? Don’t like how this hard truth feels? What are we as men doing about it?
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How can we make the spaces between us and others feel comfortable enough for someone to meet us halfway and call us in?
How will we react and respond?
#CallingIn #CallingOut
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“I’m not trying to be a great leader. I’m trying to be a great teammate.“ - Vladdy
In being a better teammate to other men and young men, @BlueJays All Star Vladimir Guerrero Jr. modelled being a better teammate to women and girls as well.
Look at Me. Look at Him. Look to Her.











