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speaker/writer on helpful vs harmful ideas of manhood w/ @HigherUnlearnin | link👇🏾: writing, TEDx talks, videos, podcast convos & to book me for a talk he/him

Toronto, Ontario
Joined March 2008
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I hate gay Halloween what do you mean you dressed up as the renovated reflecting pool?
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i love gay halloween what do you mean you’re fergie singing and doing cartwheels
here’s a thread of the biggest music WINS in halloween costumes this year
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How the fuck did he not score man
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Doug Ford changed the rules so women can only get tested every 5 years while Xennials and Gen-X have never been eligible for free coverage of Guardasil under OHIP. This is entirely predictable. ontario.ca/page/cervical-can…
Why cervical cancer is suddenly rising among Canadian women aged 35 to 54 cp24.com/news/canada/2026/10…
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It's actually this simple btw
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Women don’t need us to be saviours, they need us to step up and help. They have had our backs, it’s time we have theirs. Thankful for women and gender-expansive ppl who have been doing the work, and for the men who are joining in.
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Thoughts on how men must learn to build and earn trust, amidst a great Trust Famine across society. Building bridges between us can start with building bridges within us as guys.
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Men: we still doing this?
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"Picard realizes that the highest application of intelligence is not to thwart your enemies, but to design a world in which you and they can live in mutually beneficial coexistence." noahpinion.blog/p/farewell-m…
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1) For Blue Jays fans, one year ago today marks one of the most devastating losses in sports history. While it’s ‘just sports’ the bewildering grief was just as real. #BlueJays
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Sir Patrick Stewart reveals he called a meeting with the Star Trek cast because they were having too much fun. Before he became one of television’s most iconic captains, Sir Patrick Stewart approached Star Trek: The Next Generation as if he were performing Shakespeare. Conan O’Brien: “You said, ‘I’m going to approach this as if it’s Lear or Hamlet.’ That’s the seriousness with which I’m going to take this.” Sir Patrick Stewart: “I thought it was too internal, too restrained, too solitary, too unconnected with the others. So I resolved that from the start of the second season, I would begin to open him up and let him out.” That change helped shape Picard over seven seasons, four movies, and eventually Star Trek: Picard. But Sir Patrick Stewart also took his leadership role behind the scenes seriously. Halfway through the first season, he called a meeting with the cast because he believed being captain meant more than playing the leader of the Enterprise. Sir Patrick Stewart: “I’m captain of the Enterprise. But because I’d led companies on in the theater, I felt this should be my role here. I’m a leader, not just of Starfleet, but of this band of people who are working these endless days.” “We have got to make their lives easier, and the problem is we are having too much fun.”
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We mourn the passing of Patrick Stewart, who inspired countless individuals at NASA (and beyond) to boldly go where no one has gone before.
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Now feels like a good time for this clip
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Captain Picard had an ineffable influence on a young me. There's so many good moments from 'The Drumhead' alone but this scene is seared into my brain. I remember the first time I saw it and how it would come to form my moral compass. Rest In Peace Patrick Stewart.
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My favorite performance of Patrick Stewart was in the TNG episode "Tapestry". There are some days I look back to this episode for a reminder of overcoming difficulties and harsh truths. I used to beat myself up over bad choices I had made and bad people I associated with. Led me into to conflicts, ruination, and at worst: homelessness. But those were the things that made me into who I was. A lot of people just give up. They might lose their mind or spirit along the way. But you can't ever give those up -they're all you really have. That almost sounds like it could be a cope, but in many cases, that's just how it goes. You have to live to know.
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God what an actor Patrick Stewart was
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Interesting take on why so much of Gen Z is unfamiliar with the pop culture that preceded them compared to millennials. I had a similar conclusion but had never heard it articulated
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