TheMasterCommeth

Happy Hypnovember everyone! Want to be a better subject, or a better tist? I’m going to try something new this year. Like, share, and then comment on this post with “yes please”. At the end of the month, one lucky person wins a whole year of 1:1 hypno coaching with me!

I do love effort and dedication… I say that it’s a must when I have a relationship with a submissive… But nonetheless, showing up on time, paying attention, trying hard, going the extra mile… All warm my heart.

Hypnosis tip: Entering trance through hypnosis can put people into an altered state similar to drugs or alcohol, meaning they are still “there”, but are much more likely to betray their own logic, limits and inhibitions… (Continued)

As a tist, you have a responsibility to uphold the limits and safety standards your sub set with you before being hypnotised by you. That also means having the conversation about limits and safety whilst neither of you is horny, because that is, in itself, an altered state.

Apropos to nothing in particular… Someone be a good pet and remind me to look out my fob watch before Friday 👀

If you are reading this, and you know who you are… It’s ok to make mistakes… It’s ok to get confused… It’s ok to be silly, Ditzy, dozy, daft… You don’t need be perfect all the time… Take off the armour… Take off the mask… You are safe now.

In today’s seminar: “Your kink identity is more the real you than the edited version most people see” Discuss!

(1/2) Another little segment on the “pleasure” dial today… Many people will automatically go to horny feelings when trying to explore hypnosis erotically… Although that’s the most obvious angle, pleasure can also come from a…

From a recent seminar: “Punishment is essential to D/S dynamics” Discuss.

For any kinksters who think hypnosis is “not real”: Going under is like stretching for anal… Taking pain… Practicing chastity… And many other things… Your brain is a muscle to train. It takes time, practice, effort, good form and is made better by the right partner.

An invitation to be a little honest and vulnerable, for those who want it: How many times have you played with someone, not because you were interested in them as a person, but because of where they lived? Their toys/gear collection? Their connection on social media?

Tip for submissives: Try to come with a bit of personality when you meet your Dom at first. Many will be happy with an agreeable, obedient submissive right from the start… But many dominants enjoy the thrill of the chase, or the taking of the mind. Don’t deny them the hunt!

From today’s seminar: If you woke up tomorrow, and your biggest problem in life had been solved in a way that’s not an excess of change, but “just enough”… What would others see? What would you see, hear, smell, taste, touch? How would you feel?

Sometimes as a Dom… The best skill you have is to see when your sub is having an off day… Put aside any big, complicated plans… And just let them rest… Sleep, even, if it’s what they need… And what a blessing, to be able to give them unapologetic rest.

Philosophical post of the day… Cumming on half asleep puppyboy paws - particularly if they are soft but with little rough patches from working on their feet a lot - absolute bliss. You know who you are 😘

If you feel you have to use a cage to take part in locktober, is the desire more around the chastity itself, or is it around the aesthetics, or sense of doing what others are doing? A cage doesn’t stop you unlocking. Keys handed to a keyholder don’t stop you finding ways to cum.

Tip for Dominants: Listen to and understand your submissive. Make choices, training, rewards which fit them personally, as best you can. Tip for submissives: Find a way to say what you want and what’s bothering you in a polite way. A Dom can’t account for what they don’t know.

An example of customised training (identifiers removed): Your submissive has lots of desires for their life, but low self efficacy and a tendency to say “I’m not bothered” when asked to make a choice. Note that not making a choice is important here… (Continues 1 of 2)

An example of customised training: Your sub is an over-apologiser especially for innocuous things. - draw attention to it when they do it. This can help them start noticing the contexts in which the need to apologise comes up…. (Continued)