TheMasterCommeth

I currently have no availability for personal submissives. I’ve very happily given out the last of my trial collars to a pup who deserves the opportunity. I prefer quality over quantity, and reward effort with effort. Please don’t ask to be a personal submissive when you DM.

No such thing as overdressed. I’d say it was acceptable all the time, society be damned, but if you walked round barefoot all the time you’d be cold, and your feet would be less aesthetically pleasing.

From today’s seminar: “Submission and service without external motivation, validation or reward is more meaningful” Discuss!

Letting people know that you want something, and that you are available to accept it if offered, is often the best starting point to getting the thing.

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If you disagree, that’s fine… But I’d gently invite you to consider why needing to be so public, to be desired on a superficial level by many, rather than contented by close connection with a few is important to you, and what that says about the difference between us. (Fin)

sessions, photos and videos of them, or making them post themselves referring back to/advertising me (although I do want them to be proud of our connection)… I don’t need an army of subs to be successful… And I don’t need to provide mass market content as “proof”…

My ethos is that long term, 24/7 D/S dynamics thrive on trust, connection, and are very personal… So unless my sub derives particular satisfaction from being shown off/shared, and unless my feelings on sharing them publicly change… You will continue to not see… (Continued)

I’m airing this as a thought, but don’t necessarily need a solution to it… I share very little of my own submissives anywhere online…. With the exception of the odd foot pic here and there… (Continued)

Life happens. Take all the time you need. I look forward to reading more from you when you get back into the swing of it 😊

That’s mildly concerning, but to each their own, and as long as you are safe and happy.

For some people, submission is just a fun thing they do in the bedroom, or for a short “scene”, and that’s fine… Some start out that way but want to explore more deeply, and it takes time to bridge the attitude gap… I just happen to value the extra effort that few put in.

My best advice? People have lives. You could be the best ‘tist in the world, and there are a thousand reasons why you may not get the level of interaction you hope for outside of a session. Most importantly, don’t confuse interaction with skill, or skill with self worth.

Apropos to nothing in particular… Someone be a good pet and remind me to look out my fob watch before Friday 👀