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While I do agree with some of the things people are saying, having 14 children by 12 different men is a lot, and I can understand why people may have their opinions about it. However, we have to look beyond the numbers and pay attention to what this woman is actually saying.
When someone is standing in front of you, opening up about their situation, they’re not necessarily asking you to approve of their choices. She’s asking for HELP. She’s basically saying, “Hey, something is wrong, and I need help.” And she’s acknowledging that something is wrong with her situation.
So instead of bashing her, belittling her, and making her feel worse about herself, why not offer her some actual guidance? Why not encourage her to seek therapy and counseling to work through whatever she may be struggling with? We don’t know everything this woman has experienced in her life, and we shouldn’t assume we do.
Sometimes people need somebody to help them understand why they keep making certain decisions instead of somebody standing over them, judging them for the decisions they’ve already made.
The children are already here. You cannot change the past, but you can help someone make better decisions for the future.
At some point, we have to stop confusing criticism with correction. If your goal is truly to help somebody, your approach should reflect that. You can tell someone the truth without humiliating them. You can hold someone accountable without tearing them down.
She’s at a point where she needs help, guidance, healing, and possibly professional counseling. Once she begins addressing the underlying issues, she can work toward building healthier relationships and understanding what real love looks like.
Everybody doesn’t need you to remind them of what they did wrong. Sometimes they need somebody willing to help them figure out how to make things right.
If we’re going to talk about love, compassion, and helping people, then let’s actually demonstrate those things instead of using someone’s struggles as an opportunity to make ourselves feel superior. ❤️
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Parents give teachers so much flack but these are the same parents that were begging to sacrifice their kids and send them back to school because they were tired of babysitting their own misbehaved children when a mysterious airbone respiratory illness was killing ppl by the 1000s.
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Yall say this but if yall kid come home and don’t do chores.. yall taking the game, not giving them sweets… so what’s the difference.. it’s ok to act a nut in a PUBLIC setting… SCHOOL and get rewarded!
When I was in school and acted up AT HOME my mama would call the school and TELL them to exclude me from non required fun!
Bad behavior isn’t rewarded.. it’s met with death or jail and that’s why yall kids ain’t living past 21 because yall don’t draw this line!
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Y’all parents are horrible. Y’all kids are out of control, disruptive, disrespectful & y’all think they deserve a treat cuz not giving them a cupcake would be “ruining their damn childhood”. Pleaseee can’t wait till they start telling y’all don’t bring that shit at all no more.
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Then celebrate at home pookie. Y’all are on the teachers time. This is not your kids bday party. This is a classroom. The entitlement is wild. I would prob feel a way for a sec, but I’d understand. Lil Timmy been throwing shit across the class doesn’t deserve a damn cupcake.
I'm seeing a lot of teachers saying they would give the child a cupcake because its for a celebration of another child.
#cupcakes
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Classroom structure and making student expectations clear are more important than funky ass cupcakes bruh. This is why teachers cannot stand yall. Stay tf out the classroom. This is why YALL cannot control your teens. It’s much easier to make the point at 6 w a cupcake than 18 w a car or 14 w a cellphone.
this!! like it’s so simple, it really doesn’t matter if he purchased them or not
Classroom structure and making student expectations clear are more important than funky ass cupcakes bruh. This is why teachers cannot stand yall. Stay tf out the classroom. This is why YALL cannot control your teens. It’s much easier to make the point at 6 w a cupcake than 18 w a car or 14 w a cellphone.