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Advocates who created VAW Advocate Case Reviews (VACR) of police sexual assault investigations. Oversight & transparency matter.

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For training to have an impact individuals have to: (1) want to be there (2) believe there are things they don’t know (3) be receptive to learning new information even if it challenges core beliefs. The ppl who need it most generally don’t meet these criteria.
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Police “assumed” the intruder had left. Hospital “assumed” she had dementia. There are no words for my rage right now. (Oh, except why doesn’t the story say which police & hospital staff were fired? Bet I know why.)
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"Serious injury may occur within seconds or minutes, with less pressure than it takes to open a can of pop and without visible marks." Canada must stop treating sexual strangulation as just rough sex policyoptions.irpp.org/2026/…
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SANDRA BIRCHMORE'S VOICE WAS HEARD TODAY. Assistant U.S. Attorney Brian Fogerty delivered what I consider a powerful and compelling closing argument in the federal murder trial of Matthew Farwell. It was meticulous in its presentation of the evidence, but equally important, it was deeply human. Fogerty accomplished something that had been missing from Sandra Birchmore's story for far too long: He restored her dignity, gave her a voice, and placed responsibility for her exploitation that began as a child, where it belonged. But for me, the most powerful aspect of this closing argument was what it gave back to Sandra. For years, according to the evidence presented, Sandra lived within a relationship defined by Farwell's power and control. Even after her death, the initial state investigation failed to give her the dignity, and justice she deserved. Today, although Sandra could not walk into that courtroom or confront Farwell herself, her words, her experiences, her digital footprint, and the physical evidence spoke for her. For perhaps the first time, the power dynamic was reversed. Farwell could no longer control the narrative presented to the jury. Sandra's life and the evidence of what happened to her were placed before twelve jurors charged with determining the truth. And there is something even larger here. Sandra Birchmore's death has brought national attention to the insidious, predatory nature of grooming and sexual exploitation. Grooming can slowly consume a child's identity until the child cannot distinguish manipulation from genuine care. That manipulation often continues into adulthood. My hope is that Sandra's story will educate hundreds of thousands of parents, teachers, and other trusted adults about the warning signs of grooming and the devastating consequences of failing to recognize them. Whatever the jury ultimately decides, that is a legacy of extraordinary importance. We owe Sandra Birchmore not only our compassion, but our gratitude. Her voice, finally heard, may become the voice that saves another child. Sandra Birchmore's voice was heard today. She spoke and we should listen.
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I have been holding my tongue about something that happened during the Ohio gubernatorial race. I refused to speak while the election was underway because I did not want my words mistaken for an attempt to influence anyone’s vote. But now that the election is over, I have something to say. For nearly twenty years, my ministry has taken me among the homeless, the abused, the exploited, and the forgotten. I have sat with victims of sexual violence and witnessed the lifelong wounds of childhood trauma. What Vivek Ramaswamy’s campaign did to Amy Acton was among the most morally repulsive things I have witnessed in American politics. They took a woman whose stepfather was indicted for raping her when she was twelve years old and featured her mother, from whom she had been estranged for nearly fifty years, in a political advertisement attacking her credibility. The advertisement challenged Acton’s account of her childhood without mentioning the sexual abuse allegations or the circumstances of that estrangement. When people expressed their horror, the campaign defended it. Imagine examining another person’s childhood suffering and fractured family relationships, then deciding those wounds might help win an election. Anyone who has worked with survivors of childhood sexual abuse understands the painful realities of denial, betrayal, shame, and estrangement. A child growing into a successful adult does not erase what happened. Nor does a parent’s denial make that suffering disappear. I find it equally disturbing that an elderly mother, whom Acton herself described as unwell, was brought into this spectacle. Whatever her own struggles or responsibility for the past, exploiting that fractured relationship was grotesque. To everyone who defended this, consider the message you sent to survivors. To the young woman whose family refuses to believe her. To the man who has carried the shame of childhood abuse for forty years. To the frightened child who has yet to tell anyone. What did you teach them about the value of their suffering? I am a priest. I believe in repentance, forgiveness, and redemption. But none of those things requires me to pretend that deliberate cruelty is anything less than a grave moral failure. Your political allegiance does not absolve you of moral responsibility. You do not get to set aside your conscience during an election and retrieve it afterward. If your loyalty requires you to defend the exploitation of a childhood sexual abuse survivor, your loyalty has become an idol. And if your conscience cannot recognize the wrong here, examine what political tribalism has done to it. This is not about Republicans or Democrats. We have a choice as a people: continue excusing cruelty from our preferred political camp, or summon the courage to condemn it wherever it appears. Amy Acton deserved better. Every survivor who watched this unfold deserved better. And God help us if we have reached the point where winning an election matters more than protecting the dignity of a wounded human being.
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Another deeply disturbing account of police misconduct shocking in its details, but unsurprising to those of us who have experienced police-related trauma. The victim reportedly showed the officers video evidence of the abuse. While watching the video, the male officer reportedly recognized the alleged assailant and deleted the video in front of his partner. The female officer reported her partner's actions to two sergeants on duty. She then had to escalate her concerns when they were allegedly ignored by her supervisors.
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An abusive partner does not suddenly become a safe or good parent when the relationship ends. The same man who used violence, control, and fear against the mother will often use the same tactics against the children, or use them to continue controlling her. Family court frequently ignores this. It treats fatherhood as separate from the abuse, and orders contact as if the two can be cleanly divided. They cannot. The man who was dangerous in the relationship is still dangerous as a parent. The system that forces children into contact with him is choosing not to see it. The System Is The Weapon amzn.eu/d/0fMYKCDT
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We all know what this means, even if the @RCMPSask will probably never say. Woman, man about same age. Woman's death suspicious. Man's death not-suspicious. No risk to public safety. The public isn't stupid. Don't treat us like we are.
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'Her only defence was her voice': Crown says in closing argument at 2024 femicide trial for victim, Brkti Berhe ottawacitizen.com/news/closi… #CallItFemicide
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I’ve found that most don’t understand how insidious grooming is…@TheCarolErskine does an excellent job of breaking it down for the uninformed.
Just stop! This is my message for those posting comments blaming Sandra Birchmore for other sexual encounters besides Matthew Farwell. Someone commented on a Facebook post recently about Sandra Birchmore: “She’s no angel! What was done to her was wrong, but she knew what she was doing as she got older.” That statement and others like it reflect a profound misunderstanding of grooming and childhood sexual exploitation. As I explained on @JusticeServedTV Sandra's sexual encounters with other men cannot be separated from the grooming that began when she was just 12 years old. Grooming is not simply about obtaining sex from a child. It is about systematically dismantling that child's understanding of love, trust, boundaries, and relationships. Farwell exploited Sandra's vulnerabilities and her admiration for police officers. Through years of relentless manipulation, he conditioned her to associate sexual availability with affection, acceptance, and approval. This is the reason groomers like Farwell can continue to sexually exploit victims into adulthood and leave them vulnerable to exploitation by others. That conditioning did not disappear when Sandra turned 18. A birthday does not erase years of psychological manipulation. What some characterize as promiscuity, actually reflects the lasting consequences of childhood sexual exploitation. Sandra's adult behavior must be understood in the context of what was done to her as a child. As a Juvenile Court judge for more than two decades, I saw firsthand how grooming and sexual trauma can distort a young person's understanding of relationships and personal boundaries. Stop judging and blaming Sandra for behaviors shaped by years of grooming that distorted her understanding of personal boundaries and left her vulnerable to continued sexual exploitation. Just stop.
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This is bleak. As a non-parent, I never judge parents unless there's a case of abuse or a clear case of really bad parenting. I've come to appreciate how difficult it is to be a parent and how parents sometimes have to make compromises to care for their kids that don't always meet the standards they've set for themselves or that, if shared publicly, might require a great deal of vulnerability. But if your daughter's teacher asks you to name three things that make your own child special, and you turn to an AI assistant for the answer, I'm going to judge you as a parent. There's a difference between using AI to help organize things, or even clean up something you've already written about your child, and relying on AI to answer a deeply personal question about what makes your child special. Maybe Marissa Mayer already knew all three things about her daughter. That's not the point. The point is that she was asked to identify what makes her daughter special, and she outsourced the answer to AI. And what makes this even more absurd is that the assistant came back with three of the most generic descriptions imaginable: empathetic, creative, and an animal lover. Those are lovely qualities, but they could describe millions of children. And if you think this is a story that reflects well on you as a parent, let alone one worth proudly sharing with the world, you are clearly untethered from reality.
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Just stop! This is my message for those posting comments blaming Sandra Birchmore for other sexual encounters besides Matthew Farwell. Someone commented on a Facebook post recently about Sandra Birchmore: “She’s no angel! What was done to her was wrong, but she knew what she was doing as she got older.” That statement and others like it reflect a profound misunderstanding of grooming and childhood sexual exploitation. As I explained on @JusticeServedTV Sandra's sexual encounters with other men cannot be separated from the grooming that began when she was just 12 years old. Grooming is not simply about obtaining sex from a child. It is about systematically dismantling that child's understanding of love, trust, boundaries, and relationships. Farwell exploited Sandra's vulnerabilities and her admiration for police officers. Through years of relentless manipulation, he conditioned her to associate sexual availability with affection, acceptance, and approval. This is the reason groomers like Farwell can continue to sexually exploit victims into adulthood and leave them vulnerable to exploitation by others. That conditioning did not disappear when Sandra turned 18. A birthday does not erase years of psychological manipulation. What some characterize as promiscuity, actually reflects the lasting consequences of childhood sexual exploitation. Sandra's adult behavior must be understood in the context of what was done to her as a child. As a Juvenile Court judge for more than two decades, I saw firsthand how grooming and sexual trauma can distort a young person's understanding of relationships and personal boundaries. Stop judging and blaming Sandra for behaviors shaped by years of grooming that distorted her understanding of personal boundaries and left her vulnerable to continued sexual exploitation. Just stop.
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On April 10th, 2013, Sandra Birchmore was 15. Matthew Farwell was about to turn 27. Intercourse with Birchmore on that date is statutory rate by law. "In Massachusetts, sexual intercourse with a child under 16 is rape of a child under G.L. c. 265, § 23. The child’s consent is not a defense. A person convicted under § 23 faces imprisonment in state prison for life or for any term of years. The Commonwealth may indict a person for rape of a child at any time after the offense. G.L. c. 277, § 63. The Norfolk County District Attorney’s Office received the Stoughton Police Department’s findings in 2022. No Massachusetts prosecutor has charged Mr. Farwell with rape of a child or with any other crime."
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