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Proposal and Bid Manager in AEC | Doctor of Commerce | Indie Author of a few books. “Planning is boring. It's also where most projects are won or lost."

Joined September 2009
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The ancient Greeks had two words for time. 😀 Chronos - the ticking clock, the calendar, the birthday that reminds you another year is gone. And Kairos - the moment of meaning, the instant that changes everything. Most people spend their entire lives in Chronos, counting years, dreading the number. They never realize that a single Kairos moment; one conversation, one decision, one brutal honest look in the mirror can outweigh a decade of Chronos. You’re not running out of time. You’re running out of meaningful moments. Those you can still choose.
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Understand your annoyance. Ekiti is used in so many silly examples for this agenda laced analysis.
Crazy thing is that I’m fully Ekiti. Both parents are from Ekiti. They even went to the same primary school. Full fledged. But I should be shining teeth with you disguising your tribalism calling my people names unheard of. What’s funny about it????
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Best portfolio I’ve seen so far from Wealthsimple “investors like me” pulse feature. Guy is up almost 300%. Over 50% in USA stocks.
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If you're single, hungry, and have time to fail fast, learn AI creative strategy + brand storytelling. AI agents will make execution cheaper and faster. Businesses will then compete on soft power as their most remarkable trait Who can make people feel something, believe something, and remember something? Whose story wins?
In the next 3 years, I think we’re going to see huge cutbacks in engineering headcount and equally huge increases for customer-facing roles. LLMs can do most of the software engineering role and it’s going to keep increasing. There will be some left, but you have to legitimately be one of the best. Meanwhile, anyone who has a customer-facing role (product, sales, etc.) just immediately 10x’d their value for one simple reason: no one likes getting AI slop thrown at them. And because the supply of software is increasing, there will be more demand for these roles. If you’re in a customer-facing role, congratulations. You just got a golden ticket. If you’re a dev, you’d better be the best or start developing non-technical skills.
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One of the tricks in selling It applies everywhere. Buyer: I want to get A Seller: What do you use it for | What are you looking to gain? Patients starts talking Seller taking note of everything being said and controlling the whole encounter while buyer thinks he/she is making the decisions 😅
An aso oke seller in Lagos once told me she never discounts on the first ask. She asks what the customer wants - a wedding, a shop or a gift, then suggests the right cloth. The price stops being the main conversation. Understanding the purpose behind a purchase beats winning the argument about price.
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An aso oke seller in Lagos once told me she never discounts on the first ask. She asks what the customer wants - a wedding, a shop or a gift, then suggests the right cloth. The price stops being the main conversation. Understanding the purpose behind a purchase beats winning the argument about price.
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Consciousness gives us perspective and distance in the same gift. We step back from life far enough to see it, and far enough to doubt it. Every creature lives. Only humans have to decide how.
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It is 10:40pm, and an evaluator is on bid number nine of fourteen. She does not remember your company name. She remembers which proposal let her find the answer in under a minute. Write for that reader. Clear headings and mirrored RFP language get rewarded with points.
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I remember. Even most of us agreed. I believe Messi grew to become better as a leader.
Sois muy jóvenes y no os acordaréis pero uno de los argumentos que se usaban para defender a Cristiano sobre Messi era que el primero era mejor líder.
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This guy knows ball. Remembers Athens 2004.
Replying to @Kingsurchman101
私たちがナイジェリアを過小評価する理由はない。なぜならナイジェリアはアテネ五輪で日本に勝っているから。
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Learn the job above yours while you are still doing the job you have. Not to rush a promotion, but to understand what your manager is actually worried about. People who see the bigger picture write better emails, ask sharper questions and become the obvious choice when a role opens.
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Absolute ballers 🙂
This is was such an audacious chip from Oluebube Umejiaku to put the Flamingos 2-0 up against Japan. After missing that chance in the first half, she atoned for it with a more brilliant goal!! She was so confident here 👏👏
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The girls delivered ❤️. World title championship holders 😎
Nigeria claim the #U17WWC title. 🇳🇬🏆

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Islamophobia alienates people, victimises the entire population, and what’s worse, it doesn’t work to solve Islamist extremism. But keep doing it.
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Project: Proposed Urban Noodles Outlet. Location: Osogbo Shopping Mall. Structural Concept: 20ft Container Layout: An office and a Kitchen. Contractor: Latbash Nigeria Limited. Designed by yours truly. Executed and Supervised by Latbash Nigeria Limited Ilorin Kwara State. – at Osun, Nigeria
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Her values however unpopular are very consistent. Don't discriminate, don't be a bigot - especially within the context displayed on here. Simple human values.
Uloma has no conviction. Anywhere belle face na front for her.
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The league is ours to bottle at this point.
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The Rideau Canal opened in 1832 under the direction of Lieutenant Colonel John By, and the settlement that grew beside it was first called Bytown. It was renamed Ottawa in 1855 and later chosen as the capital.
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NBA had some crazy stats last night. Lucas 50 points. Wembys 54 points and 24 rebounds and 8 blocks. The guys is an anomaly.
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Not still impressed by Tzolis.
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Chile before Sanchez = 0 trophies Chile with Sanchez = 2 trophies Senegal before Mane = 0 trophies Senegal with Mane = 2 trophies Greece before Cristiano = 0 trophies Greece with Cristiano = 1 trophy Spain before Xavi = 1 trophy Spain with Xavi = 3 trophies France before Zidane = 1 trophy France with Zidane = 4 trophies Inter Miami before Messi = 0 trophies Inter Miami with Messi = 6 trophies Barcelona before Messi = 1 UCL Barcelona with Messi = 4 UCL PSG before Dembele = 0 UCL PSG with Dembele = 2 UCL Don’t let them gaslight you with the rubbish they’re saying. There’s nothing Ronaldo has done that’s special that others hasn’t done. All they do is overhype the average thing he does. Portugal has always had quality players but always fall short. Imagine saying Harry Kane plays for a small team because they haven’t won anything since. History doesn’t do anything in recent years. If not, Italy that’s 4 times world champions would still be winning. No one cares about what Pele did in 1956 or what Ronaldo did in 2002. France 2026, Spain 2026 has better players than the current Brazil squad and that’s what matters. Nottingham forest are 2 time UCL winners while Arsenal isn’t but their 2 UCL doesn’t make them better than current Arsenal. Ronaldo fans are trying to make you believe that Portugal has always been a small country until Ronaldo put them on the map. A country that has Eusebio, Figo, Deco and others. A country which their club is among top 7 in Europe and their clubs have won UCL different times. They have underachieved, yes but underachieving doesn’t automatically make them a small country like Belarus, Poland and co.
Norway before Haaland = 0 trophies Norway with Haaland = 0 trophies Croatia before Modric = 0 trophies Croatia with Modric = 0 trophies Netherlands before Cryuff = 0 trophies Netherlands with Cryuff = 0 trophies Poland before Lewandowski = 0 trophies Poland with Lewandowski = 0 trophies Wales before Bale = 0 trophies Wales with Bale = 0 trophies England before Kane = 1 trophy England with Kane = 1 trophy Portugal before Ronaldo = 0 trophies Portugal with Ronaldo = 3 trophies Put it however you want, Ronaldo has done things for his country which were quite literally unimaginable and impossible. Many have tried and failed
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