having a crush on someone while feeling like you’re not attractive enough to even have a chance with them is a different kind of embarrassment

Oct 28, 2026 · 11:56 PM UTC

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You’re putting them on a pedestal while actively trashing yourself. You’re assuming your worth is a zero before they even get a chance to look at you
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double time when she is hot AND smart
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Pretty much sums up my life
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You don't have to be ‘attractive enough’ to be allowed a crush. That sounds like a rough feeling, though.
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You just move on bruh. It's not THAT hard yk
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I haven’t had a crush since school, life has been so boring since then.
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You're just the one embarrassing yourself
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righttt that’s why you gotta work on your looks and lvl up
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Oh, that hurts. The lack of confidence.
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I think people who often feels this way are insecure and don’t deserve to be with anyone fr
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Rt :(
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Fresh up
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我鼓起勇气要了我crush的微信，ta现在还没回我，我简直是彻夜难眠
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the worst part is knowing theyd never even look twice but you still catch yourself daydreaming about the most random scenarios with them
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I’ve mad that mistake stop putting people on pedestals we are in adulthood not highschool these men/women are not celebs
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Leave me alone callouts like this hurt
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I felt exactly like this and now we’re going on a date this weekend 🥹🥹 never give up
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Sometimes you haven't even tried talking to the person, but you've already rejected yourself in your head because you think they're out of your league.
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OH man that feeling when you realize they're on a completely different level than you really hits hard. You thought you were good enough until they made it painstakingly clear that theyre in a different league. Like there is absolutely nothing to gain from dating me dude.
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Ill do you one even better, having a crush on someone who isn't compatible with you due to gender/sexuality 🙃
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The shame fades away after time. Then there is just the emptiness of knowing you'll never be good enough
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Embarrassment? More like a Different kind of PAIN--
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having a crush and immediately disqualifying yourself from the competition 😭
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Shits not even funny. They’re so beautiful in every way I’m just glad I can be their friend
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If there is absolutely zero possibility of that happening, it is not bad, it is like admiring beauty from outside and you dont even get cautious with your behaviors, he/she will not like you even if you acted like a queen anyway.
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I do not recommend having a crush on someone who's better looking than you and also doesn't like the opposite gender. Pretty rough to handle
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Everybody has self esteem issues. If your crush starts doing more than friendly things shoot your shot
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I feel that rn, I really like someone but I know that I'm not good enough for them (they're well known and gorgeous, I don't stand a chance!)
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It's insane cuz you're almost always wrong. Seen the biggest wastemen punch so high above their weight you're never not attractive enough
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They’re like walking dead 💀
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You can always improve, or even try If you don’t success, move on and be better
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It almost feels like harassment, like sorry I’m into you 😭
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Eu fico assim td vez que eu lembro do menino bnt que eu gostava e gst até hj que me zoava flnd q gst de mim e que ia namorar comigo e eu era inocente dms pra perceber que ele nunca ia gostar de mim,passei mt vergonha sozinha por causa dele justamente por n entender o bullying kk
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Me everytime I have a crush😔
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worked out for me, but yeah she left me after a while but
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