Vitus jr🐐

"Leave Your Comfort Zone" I never advise anyone to leave their comfort zone. Don't leave where you have peace of mind because they told you to leave comfort zone. Discomfort dey kill ooo. They tell you what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. What they didn't tell you is that, it can also damage you. I don't weigh stregth by who suffer pass. If you are leaving your comfort zone, please go to a more comfortable zone. There is no glory in being the most stressed. Always weigh the risk, opportunity cost of taking that decision, potential fall outs. Don't just jump into it because motivational speakers asked you to leave your comfort zone. You can leave your comfort zone and zone out completely. Life no send your papa If you can stay with your parents after graduation or employment, stay with them till you have enough money for independence. Don't leave family house to go squat with somebody and be at their mercy when your parents live in same city. That is not growth. You're a mumu. If you are growing in your job and it brings you much peace with good work culture, stay and grow there. If you are leaving, make sure you're leaving for a more comfortable place not leaving comfort zone for stress. More money is not always good money. Some office politics and work culture will fuck with your mental health. You have a good life in Nigeria, you have a good job, good family, you travel with family, you get to see your love ones often, you enjoy the life in Nigeria. But they are telling you to japa because you have to leave your comfort zone. If abroad will make you depressed, please stay where you are. Japa because you want it and it is in your best interest not because you habe to "leave your comfort zone." "Leave your comfort zone" ended Owen, Hazard, Coutinho, Song's career. I can go on. Staying in comfort zone made Xavi, Iniesta, Gerrard, Totti, Messi, Scholes, Maldini, legends. Everybody will not be Ronaldo or Zlatan. Even CR7 might have won more Ballon D'or if he didn't leave Madrid. Some of you habe changed job and regretted because the work culture is toxic. Please don't just leave comfort zone for the sake of leaving comfort zone. Enjoy comfort. Nobody hurts from comfort. If you are leaving comfort zone, move to a more comfortable zone. I know we have to dare the impossible. Please have strong background so that if you knack back for ground, they will pick you up. There is a Yoruba proverb that says “Irorun igi ni irorun eye”. This means that, if the tree is not conducive enough, the bird cannot perch. Don't go and perch where is not conducive. I have said my say. Good luck!