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Full grown adults that can’t swim, cycle, skate, backpack, take a gap year, vacation, play an instrument or speak multiple foreign languages. Just a lifetime of hustling and trying to leave survival mode. These are subtle poverty metrics that no one really talks about.
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
“Narratives” ?? because we said you shouldn’t argue the experience of a PREGNANT WOMAN with her as a MAN??? Ashiere leyin guys yi o !!!
Are you implying we should allow women dictate whatever narratives they deem fit on the topic regardless of its veracity? Why do people argue any topic as a matter of fact?
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
Random woman: 'FOR ME, MY pregnancy felt like a death sentence' Random twitter accounts: have you died before? It's a lie, pregnancy is generally safe, you don't know what death sentence is Like, let's try to actually stop and think about that whole exchange for a second
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
Pèp ayisyen, Nou prèske fin deplwaye sòlda nou yo ak ekipman nou yo sou tè Ayiti. Sa a se pa yon operasyon kont pèp ayisyen an, ni yon envazyon peyi Ayiti. Nou pa yon gwo pisans. Nou pa gen okenn enterè ni pou nou vin domine pèp ayisyen an, ni pou nou mete men sou richès Ayiti. Nou se yon peyi modès k ap devlope. Sèl sa nou vle, se pou kat teknisyen avyasyon nou yo tounen lakay yo. Epi n ap bay gang yo yon leson, gang sa yo k ap fè pèp ayisyen an soufri, ki touye moun pèp la renmen yo, k ap anpeche l viv yon lavi nòmal, lib, san laperèz. Se prèske nou menm sèl k ap peye pou operasyon sa a. Menmsi nou resevwa yon ti èd lojistik nan men kèk lòt peyi, se ak pwòp ti kès nou n ap kouvri 90% nan depans yo. Sa koute nou chè, men nou te aprann nan pwòp soufrans nou: jistis ak lapè pa gen pri. Nou te pase nan menm soufrans Ayiti ap travèse jodi a. Nou te viv yon beny san ki te pi terib toujou pase sa pèp ayisyen an ap sibi kounye a. Nou konnen sa sa vle di: viv nan laperèz, pa fè politisyen konfyans, pa kwè okenn moun ki pwomèt l ap ede w. Paske pèsonn pa t vin ede nou, e moun ki te vini yo pa t gen bon entansyon nan kè yo. Men nou te rive chape anba sa. Apre 200 lane soufrans, finalman n ap viv nan lapè, e jodi a nou se peyi ki gen plis sekirite sou kontinan an. Nou pa vin ann Ayiti pou nou touche lajan, paske pèsonn pa peye nou pou sa. Nou vin ann Ayiti pou nou goumen kont mechan yo. Men sa m ap mande nou: fè nou konfyans, lapriyè sèl vrè Bondye a, epi mande L pou L geri Ayiti. “Lè sa a si pèp ki pote non m lan lapriyè nan pye m, si yo soumèt devan mwen, si yo pran chache m ankò, si yo vire do bay vye peche yo t'ap fè yo, m'ap tande yo nan syèl kote m ye a, m'ap padonnen peche yo, m'ap fè peyi a kanpe ankò.” 2 Kwonik 7:14 Ede nou ede Ayiti. Epi lè misyon nou an fini, n ap tounen lakay nou. Petèt jenerasyon Ayisyen k ap vini yo ap sonje nou kòm zanmi ki te vin ede yon lè.
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Her body was buried that day, and from that day, her three kids became motherless, you can’t have an opinion on something you haven’t or will never experience as a human. Even with your degrees, if you’ve never experienced the close death aspect of pregnancy, you don’t have
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
I think health care professionals need to show a bit more restraint in wanting to be pedantic or 'correct' A person sharing the difficulty of their pregnancy on the social media isn't the time to be quoting all kinds of statistics they didn't ask you for
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
You have no fucking idea how many times women stay quiet, swallow their anger, and pretend not to notice certain things just to protect a man’s fragile ego. Some of you would never survive hearing what women actually think about you.
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
I don't understand you people Why are you debating a stranger's personal experience with them? What are you hoping to get out of this? Let's suppose you 'win' the argument, then what? You sleep better tonight? Live and let live abeg
You people can talk your own, but pregnancy felt like a death sentence for me, there were days i thought i wasn’t going to survive it. I went days without eating (I love food). It felt like a death sentence! That is my own experience and it’s my reality.
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
As a Dutch person let me tell you it's way worse than it seems. The AVERAGE stress related absence is 250+ days. The AVERAGE burnout related absence is 300+ days. While on sick-leave, you can return to work for just 4 weeks and the 2 year period **resets**. Your employer is forced to assist you in this. They have to pay for doctors, experts, and so on. If they don't, you get an extra year's wages. While on sick-leave, you can work a second job. As long as this is outside business hours of the first job, or the work is different, your first employer still pays you 70%. Here's another cool one: you can go on holiday during sick-leave. The employer can force you to use your vacation days for that, but then they have to pay you 100% of your wages rather than 70% during that period. Simple solution: you just work with contractors right? No, because a contractor can just claim employee status after getting sick. Many such cases. All of this is obviously broken. If you say this you're met with half-baked "worker's rights" arguments, as you can see in this comment section.
European hiring rules are genuinely insane. For example - if you own a company in the Netherlands and one of your employees gets sick, you are required to pay at least 70% of their wages for up to 2 years. If they can't go back to work after 2 years and you haven't done enough for their reintegration, you pay their wages for 1 more year. And you can't fire them until after that extra year!
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
Citizens of a country where "nearly 28.5% of global maternal deaths occur" are arguing. Maternal mortality is so insane that you have a greater chance of living your full life if you commit murder and you are actually sentenced to death by a court than surviving pregnancy.
Stats disagree with you. Let's not face mbbs xy today please.
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My fear of pregnancy didn’t start as an adult Started as a teenager, my mom was a nurse for over 33 years. Specialized in midwifery before going to anesthetic nursing! I heard stories, i witnessed horrible events with my very eyes Yes pregnancy can be a death sentence!!!!!
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
Nigerians hate widows, single moms & poor people. If you belong to any of the aforementioned demographs, the Lord is your strength.
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
Whatever my brother owns or owned is for his wife and kids. Only poor people like reaping where they did not sow. Hope it answers your question.
Replying to @adanonso_
Flip the script how would you feel if your brothers wife is doing the same thing Toluwani wife is doing to him ?
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Not being able to share your opinion on certain topics unless you personally experience it is a slippery slope. I don’t think anyone really wants to live in a society like that. Personally think everyone should be allowed to talk. How else do you tell the sane from the insane?
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I really hope women never stop talking about their health experiences, from reproductive health and pregnancy to fibroids and ovarian cysts etc. There’s still so much we don’t know, and too many women are left navigating these experiences in silence and confusion.
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Pregnancy is a death sentence” is a metaphor like “life is a journey” or “time is a revealer”. Not literally true but explains its gravity. Obvious to any reasonable person. If you interpret it as saying that means pregnancy = expected or automatic death, you might be a moron.
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Temitayo O. Esq retweeted
Most of you dont see your wives/your siblings wives as your family/their families and it shows.
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And yes, pregnancy for some people feels like a death sentence. They get so sick they think they will not survive it
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I find it funny when people try to create consensus on what can be opined on, in a social space for conversations. The women don’t hold themselves to the standard that things exclusively the preserve of men are beyond them to comment on, and they are right.
I generally find it bizarre when men opine on issues of health that are almost exclusively the preserve of women, e.g. menstruating, pregnancy. Must you have an opinion?
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“Pregnancy is a death sentence” is a metaphor like “life is a journey” or “time is a revealer”. Not literally true but explains its gravity. Obvious to any reasonable person. If you interpret it as saying that means pregnancy = expected or automatic death, you might be a moron.
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Semantics over a woman’s experience during childbirth o. As per it couldn’t really have felt like a death sentence to her if she didn’t actually die. Burst my head
Highest in the world, mehn. A pregnant woman has better chances in Somalia and Afghanistan than Nigeria and people dae argue words.
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